[bfree]

CIBS, I respect your opinions but please give it a rest. This isn't helping the OP in his situation.

 

[Machiavelli]

Here's the link by you to the article:


Quote from that article:
Seems you are disagreeing with the article you linked. No reason to go to the gym; just have a "masculine" face. Chin and jaw implants and new eyebrows. :rofl:

Bless you hear darlin'. I know this makes your brain hurt, but what effect do you think high testosterone has on a man's facial development? Can you figure it out? Just look at female athletes on the juice if you don't know the answer to that question.

High testosterone equals heavy brow, stronger jaw.

I will start a thread for this.

Thread jack over.

 

[just got it 55]

Bless you hear darlin'. I know this makes your brain hurt, but what effect do you think high testosterone has on a man's facial development? Can you figure it out? Just look at female athletes on the juice if you don't know the answer to that question.

High testosterone equals heavy brow, stronger jaw.

I will start a thread for this.

Thread jack over.

Please do and all the rest of what you advocate

Can't wait I see 1000 pages

count me in

55

 

[CouldItBeSo]

Bless you hear darlin'. I know this makes your brain hurt, but what effect do you think high testosterone has on a man's facial development? Can you figure it out? Just look at female athletes on the juice if you don't know the answer to that question.

High testosterone equals heavy brow, stronger jaw.

I will start a thread for this.

Thread jack over.

My brain does not hurt at all, you wish. What you failed to explain again, is how this article and study you linked is in connection to your male physique gospel, AKA the golden ratio lecture. The article completely ignored your whole profession improving body physique and used just facial features to determine attractiveness.

Note: I do not agree with the article you linked so do not start explaining about golden ratio and limbic brain anymore please. We've all heard it by now.

 

[bfree]

My brain does not hurt at all, you wish. What you failed to explain again, is how this article and study you linked is in connection to your male physique gospel, AKA the golden ratio lecture. The article completely ignored your whole profession improving body physique and used just facial features to determine attractiveness.

Note: I do not agree with the article you linked so do not start explaining about golden ratio and limbic brain anymore please. We've all heard it by now.

I can answer that. Weight training increases a man's testosterone levels dramatically which then in turn cause the changes that Mach was alluding to. Does that help? Now can we end this thread jack and get back to helping the OP?

 

[CouldItBeSo]

I can answer that. Weight training increases a man's testosterone levels dramatically which then in turn cause the changes that Mach was alluding to. Does that help? Now can we end this thread jack and get back to helping the OP?

Lol. Normal weight training does not cause your jaw or chin or brows to grow. When you workout you get a temporary increase. If you use steroids then sure but that's cheating anyway. You are too missing the fact that the study completely ignored physique as a factor. Did you even read it?

 

[PhillyGuy13]

So wife came home from work today. (Right after I got home from picking up the kids at daycare, with one of them projectile puking like the Exorcist right as I picked them up. Good times. If that was your kids' backpack with puke all over it- I apologize.)

She tells me that she wants to be completely honest with me, and that Kurt called her at work around noon today. She said he told her he was having lunch with a former coworker, and figured he would check in with her to see how she was doing. She says they spoke less than 5 minutes, as she had a client lunch to get to. He told her about his new job, which I knew of a week ago via LinkedIn. She says she did not bring up the Cleveland trip in 3 weeks, nor did he ask about it. She said this is the first time he contacted her since the November incident, and she wanted to be completely honest with me.

I am glad she told me. He called her work line and I wouldn't have been the wiser. But I had asked her to tell him not to contact her anymore if he did reach out, that I am aware of the texts and was furious. She didn't, she just hurried off the phone instead, supposedly. I know she still feels it was just drunken texts that got out of hand.
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[sandc]

It's a little concerning that she didn't tell him not to contact her further. Sounds like she still likes him.

 

[vi_bride04]

Hmmmm and it looks like he is fishing the closer the trip gets.

 

[LongWalk]

Bless you hear darlin'. I know this makes your brain hurt, but what effect do you think high testosterone has on a man's facial development? Can you figure it out? Just look at female athletes on the juice if you don't know the answer to that question.

High testosterone equals heavy brow, stronger jaw.

I will start a thread for this.

Thread jack over.

The Cro-magnon man likes this:rofl:

 

[PhillyGuy13]

I think she thinks it's easier to just be polite and get off the phone quick. At least that's what I hope. She is not confrontational at all. Maybe it's time to send him a quick text.
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[LongWalk]

Usually TAMers advise against contact OM/W because it is the job of the BS to get their spouse to make the NC statement. However, maybe you should send him a mail.

Maybe something like:

Dear Kurt,

My wife told me that she feels uncomfortable when you contact her. Please respect her wish that you refrain from doing so in the future. This is also my wish as well.

Sincerely yours,

PhillyGuy

cc: PG's wife

 

[bfree]

I think she thinks it's easier to just be polite and get off the phone quick. At least that's what I hope. She is not confrontational at all. Maybe it's time to send him a quick text.
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Maybe you should tell HER how you feel about it. It doesn't matter what her modus operandi is for dealing with him. This is about her reassuring you. She needs to deal with him the way YOU need her to. Maybe you should tell her that if she is not more confrontational with him you will be. Honestly I cannot fathom how blasé this was handled.

 

[3putt]

Maybe you should tell HER how you feel about it. It doesn't matter what her modus operandi is for dealing with him. This is about her reassuring you. She needs to deal with him the way YOU need her to. Maybe you should tell her that if she is not more confrontational with him you will be. Honestly I cannot fathom how blasé this was handled.

All of this but especially the bolded part.

 

[Tobyboy]

She tells me that she wants to be completely honest with me, and that Kurt called her at work around noon today.Posted via Mobile Device

Why do her words "wants to be completely honest" rub me the wrong way? Is it because it implies she hasn't been? Or.....is it her way to "control" the narrative of the call?

PG13....you know your wife, is this how she normally converses?

 

[workindad]

I know she still feels it was just drunken texts that got out of hand.
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Would she feel that way if the situation were you and another woman? I doubt it.

I find it hard to believe that your wife is this naive. That is the most troubling part of your story to me.

I do wish you well.

Good luck
WD

 

[workindad]

He's not her boss any more and think nothing of hitting on or calling his wife.

You should call his girlfriend and let her know he's still reaching out and why it upsets you.

 

[PhillyGuy13]

Why do her words "wants to be completely honest" rub me the wrong way? Is it because it implies she hasn't been? Or.....is it her way to "control" the narrative of the call?

PG13....you know your wife, is this how she normally converses?

I was hounding her to make sure "you be completely honest with me" for several weeks, asking if he has contacted her. So I guess when he finally did contact her she wanted to be "completely honest"
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[PhillyGuy13]

He's not her boss any more and think nothing of hitting on or calling his wife.

You should call his girlfriend and let her know he's still reaching out and why it upsets you.

I've been trying to find out who she is... I only know her first name.
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[martyc47]

Kurt is a former co-worker (boss, is it?). He's a single man. She's married. I can't conceive of any reason (except one) that they would have to stay in touch at all, let alone meet up in person. Ever.

Maybe Kurt stays in touch as a way of keeping his harem well-stocked, with back ups.

Maybe your wife just has poor boundaries and has no intent. That might be all there is to it. But I would still be troubled by "only" that. He's already shown that he doesn't respect boundaries, and she's only validating him by continuing to humor his interactions, IMHO.