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My wife and I have been married 7 years and together for over 10. To say our relationship has had issues is an understatement. Don’t get me wrong though we’ve had some great and amazing times. Before we were married I had some skeletons I didn’t deal with and I ended up cheating on my wife...

I've been reading many posts on TAM, but wanted to start my own to get advice and encouragement. Here's my story. Been together 13 years, married 10, and have three children. About 5 years ago I was traveling a lot overseas in impoverished, third-world countries for work, often gone for 2-3...

Ok i know threads like this are on here over and over but here we go: Wife was texting a male co-worker/ "friend" for over a year. Some days it was 10-20 messages some days its was 100's. Because her account is linked to our tablet i can see all messages. The conveesations were reltivatly...

First time on this forum. I know that the marital problem I’m going to describe isn’t uncommon, but it has a couple of aspects that I haven’t heard addressed elsewhere. I’d like to hear some perspectives on the situation. Wife and I have been together 21 years, married 19. Two girls, ages 15...

This is my first posting and it will be long. So apologies but thanks for advice/feedback. I'm 40, wife "Anna" is 33. Together 9 years, married for 6. Two kids, ages 5 and 3. I travel frequently for work, my wife occasionally. She works for national bank. We live in upstate NY. She is a...

My wife and I have been married for just over 10 years. We have had our ups and downs, I have not always been the best husband. A year ago I had a change of heart and decided to give my all to my marriage. A few weeks later I found out my wife was texting her ex, and also going to see him...

Hi Everyone, I just found out my husband has been texting another woman pretty much all night for the past few nights and the topic has been about her being sexy, certain "nether regions" she shaves, what she doesn't do as far as sex stuff. This is a woman we had both known in the past, she...

A couple of months ago, my husband was texting and talking to one of our female friends. I wasn't aware of it. They talked a lot, and at one point, he lied to me in order to talk to her. They didn't have an affair. Once I found out about it, I was angry and very hurt. I asked both of them not to...

I have been with my girlfriend for nearly two years. It came out very early on that she had an emotional addiction issue. She admitted to several Internet and cell phone/text "flings" just as we started seeing each other. She received some counseling at the beginning of our relationship but it...

Married 15 years - most outsiders would consider our marriage a good marriage, we're both very open, good to each other, publicly affectionate, still hold hands, etc. Earlier this year, we started to disconnect a bit. Our nightly routine consisted of watching separate TVs, going to bed at...

I posed this question in the men's clubhouse for the men's perspective, but would love feedback from women, too. In the way of background, my husband and I have been married for 16 years and we have four kids. Should it be okay for a married man to text a female friend multiple times every...

My wife has a close male Facebook friend. Are my feelings of "jealousy" justified? My wife has a close male Facebook friend. Are my feelings of "jealousy, pain and shame" justified? Background: My wife and I are both about thirty-two and have been married for 8 years. We met 12 years ago...

This is not the first time. When H and I were dating, he confessed to me that he was texting a girl that he talked to online. He had never met this girl in person, she didn't live anywhere near us. He sent the girl pictures, received pictures, talked sexually and even told her he loved her...

Hi everyone... I'm a new user to this forum after browsing a little bit. I really really would appreciate help or advice. I'm so lost right now. I talked to a family friend (well, his friend) who was helpful but he doesn't really know what I should do other than that my fiance needs counseling...

While my situation is not overtly unique and I feel as if I am merely posting what has been posted hundreds of times before. I still feel like this will be good for me to confide in complete strangers and have someone to talk to about my situation. I'm going to tell the story, hopefully no one...

ok, I need some help, I have a wife who doesn't see anything wrong with contacting, staying in touch, visiting and on one occasion stayed with an ex. I have tried everything I could think of to make my point, I have asked several opinions from friends and they all say the same answer, it's...

I know this is a long post, but you need all the info I can give in order to help/give advice. Been married 15 years. We are both 38. We have 2 kids 13, 9. Please follow along carefully because its important to try and understand the entire dynamic of what I’m dealing with. Problem: Wife has...