My wife and I have been married for 6 years.She never has told me she has a problem with my uncircumcised penis.Yesterday she asked,"Do you ever think about getting circumcised"?And the discussion went on.It seems she doesn't like my uncircumcised penis.I've done a lot of reading online about this today.A study actually said that circumcision removes 20,000 nerve endings from the penis.And it is widely reported that uncircumcised men have more sensitivity.Im upset and confused.I do not want to get circumcised.My wife actually claimed to have told me this before.Her brother got circumcised years ago,and she claims to have talked to me about getting circumcised when she told me about her brother.That had to have been a one sentence or something of that nature and not a full conversation because I would have remembered it.So do any men have experiences with their wives wanting them to get circumcised?Any women prefer an uncircumcised penis?Why?Have you ever told a man you wanted him to get circumcised?
Wife suddenly wants me to get circumcised...I think this is ridiculous
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And this is why I reckon it's the cheese. It has to be. I wasn't joking about it although it may have seemed like I was lol
I reckon OP's wife was just being nice hence she didn't bring it up until now.
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How I wish I could like your post a million times.
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...Then why is it there?
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For us to sacrifice to God! lol
Sorry, I just found the OT amusing
Sorry, I just found the OT amusing
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Someone weighing 300lbs is a major health issue(diabetes, heart issues, joint issues, high blood pressure, etc. all common from obesity), while not liking an uncircumcised penis is purely cosmetic. There is a big difference there. The guy you dated had horrible hygiene issues, nothing more, nothing less(nothing to do with being uncirc.). I find it shallow when people won't give someone a chance because of the way they look(circ. vs. uncirc.). I find that to be wrong.
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Yea and he should not have it done now or then or ever...
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He sounds like a filthy disgusting person. He would probably be the same either way.
This is similar to saying that you dont like a certain race as someone of that race beat you up in the past.
Its a normal reaction to associate....but most certainly if it was ME I would be clean as a whistle...
Some women are gross down there too....does that make all female genitals dirty and gross?
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It doesn't matter much anymore because my husband is circed. Though like I said, there's only been one uncirced guy I've been with and I didn't exactly go around polling guys before dating them, so it naturally hasn't come up much in my life. If it had and there had been some good experiences to outweigh the bad, then idk how I would feel now. But as it stands, logically I know not all uncirced guys are gross, and I know that he in particular was, circed or not. But I have nothing to replace the memory of it all and I still like circed over uncirced in general. Always will I suppose, and I honestly have no intention of changing preferences of penis style when I have other things to work on about myself.
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Just be a good boy and get it done.
You'll get a decreased risk of developing prostate cancer, a lower chance of contracting sexually transmitted diseases, and less time in the shower or less odor -- depending on your bathing habits.
She'll get a lower chance of developing bacterial infections and a stylish new tool to try out.
You'll get a decreased risk of developing prostate cancer, a lower chance of contracting sexually transmitted diseases, and less time in the shower or less odor -- depending on your bathing habits.
She'll get a lower chance of developing bacterial infections and a stylish new tool to try out.
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Well... I can understand how one bad experience can really fudge up one's standards, as well as how a spouse will pretty much dictate your standards.
My 3rd lady friend in my youth had bad hair issues, refused to shave even though she had a forest down there that reached up to her belly button. I stopped dating Caucasian after that, perhaps it's shallow but meh. My wife is half Caucasian but has very natural smooth skin and soft hairs hence she doesn't really have to maintain herself too much so she was the exception. If my wife suddenly decides to call it quits then unfortunately I would remain just as choosy (and even more so) with the hairiness of my women.
It does pay to be more open minded I guess, but for now, it's not something I have to worry about. Unless of course my wife turns around and says "you know what, fk it, lets divorce"
EDIT: I think the term for this is "spousal bias" or something *shrug*
My 3rd lady friend in my youth had bad hair issues, refused to shave even though she had a forest down there that reached up to her belly button. I stopped dating Caucasian after that, perhaps it's shallow but meh. My wife is half Caucasian but has very natural smooth skin and soft hairs hence she doesn't really have to maintain herself too much so she was the exception. If my wife suddenly decides to call it quits then unfortunately I would remain just as choosy (and even more so) with the hairiness of my women.
It does pay to be more open minded I guess, but for now, it's not something I have to worry about. Unless of course my wife turns around and says "you know what, fk it, lets divorce"
EDIT: I think the term for this is "spousal bias" or something *shrug*
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There is no medical reason for him to get it done, so why go through an unnecessary procedure?
The stats on what you mentioned as 'benefits' of being circumcised are so minuscule that they really make no difference at all. The best way to avoid sexually transmitted diseases is to use protection, not a 2 percent less chance from being circumcised. It only takes seconds to properly clean an uncircumcised penis, so I don't see how that much "less time" in the shower would really make a difference. The only medically necessary reason to get circumcised would be if the man were having issues with UTIs and in that case, yes it would be helpful. Otherwise, it is purely cosmetic or a religious choice.
I am not saying he is in the right, because he has done some dumb sh!t to his wife, but getting a circumcision for no reason other than cosmetic issues would be a bad choice.
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Please tell me you are kidding, because none of what you say is true.
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I agree with everything you said, except for the first clause of the last sentence: He should not get a circumcision just because he's a d-bag to his wife.
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I'm still awaiting OP's response in regards to the cheese.
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Ahh, yes. The other part of the story. Don't you just hate having to wade through a thread to find out there is more to the story? Perhaps she's after to lop off half his manhood just to be annoying in retaliation?
What a horse**** comment. You're not a 'bad boy' if you don't get it done. If you don't get a boob lift, are you a 'bad girl'?
You can debate back and forth whether or not it's a good idea to get circumcised or not (I'm both circumcised and would have it done again personally), but what shouldn't be debated is if the woman should 'tell' or 'ask' her man to get it done. It's a surgical procedure which permanently alters a persons body. That choice should be his and his alone, barring some unforeseen medical issue that would make it a necessity.
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Circumcision is a terrible idea IMO. In my country it's practically unheard of unless it's for religious reasons.
For me it would be difficult to imagine the loss of sensitivity that would happen from the procedure. Right now, if I were to pull back my foreskin and go about my daily business the experience would be painful and irritating. It is THAT sensitive.
Circumcision forces the loss of sensitivity because of continuous exposure to pubic hair, skin, fabric etc.
For me it would be difficult to imagine the loss of sensitivity that would happen from the procedure. Right now, if I were to pull back my foreskin and go about my daily business the experience would be painful and irritating. It is THAT sensitive.
Circumcision forces the loss of sensitivity because of continuous exposure to pubic hair, skin, fabric etc.
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Female circumcision generally very different from male circumcision. When males are circumcised, some skin is removed. When women are ‘circumcised’ in the manner is it done to millions of women in 3rd world countries, the clitoris and labia are removed and the women is sewn up to leave only an opening big enough for a penis. The purpose is to prevent women from enjoying sex.
Female circumcision is illegal in all Western countries to prevent immigrants from performing this total removed of a girls external genitalia.
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WTF am I reading?
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^ As I mentioned before, its spousal bias! Chill!
It's not like she said uncircumcised men are this or that or something
It's not like she said uncircumcised men are this or that or something
Good Lord, you mean it could have been more sensitive than it already is!? Thanks Mom & Dad!
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