Father's Day is less than a week away, and so, it begs the question (or, perhaps, you are the one begging?) ...... did you get your blow-job for Father's Day?
So... did you get your blow-job on Father's Day?
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Sounds like the beginnings of a new country western song.
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Sam hit the nail on the head here. This is me. My wife averages one every year to 18 months for me. W knows how much I enjoy them. It's not a deal-breaker to not get them but it would be a lie to say it's not a source of resentment for me.
A bottle of water means nothing to the guy with a faucet. But it's everything to the man in the desert. I am a permanent resident of the BJ desert.
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I'd love an occasional BJ, but I'd be happy with frequent PIV sex. BJ would be icing, but I'm not going to insist she do something she feels is gross.
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It must really suck (figuratively speaking) to have a spouse with sexual hang-ups.
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Makes you wonder about the whole logic of "no sex before marriage" principle in many traditions.
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I wonder if a study has ever been done comparing the sex lives of married couples who waited until marriage vs. those who didnt?
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I doubt it would yield much data, because studies have shown women traditionally understate the number of sexual partners they have while men overstate. Keeping with the logic behind misstating the number of partners, I would expect people to likewise lie about having sex before marriage.
Perhaps the only way to factor out those would be to interview both the husband and wife separately and ask them the same questions; and if one answers yes while the other answers no, you can throw away the data.
No BJ for me. Not even a handy, or even regular good old fashioned sex. My wife did send me a text message wishing me Happy Father's Day.
In fact, my wife spent the whole weekend out of town with our daughter at her brother's house helping him to clean and repair before selling it. I had to work, otherwise I would have gone too. So I spent the whole weekend alone.
I did however get to smoke some ribs for dinner for myself on Sunday. Unfortunately I got a late start and they got home right as they were coming out of the smoker. And then they ate half of them.
In fact, my wife spent the whole weekend out of town with our daughter at her brother's house helping him to clean and repair before selling it. I had to work, otherwise I would have gone too. So I spent the whole weekend alone.
I did however get to smoke some ribs for dinner for myself on Sunday. Unfortunately I got a late start and they got home right as they were coming out of the smoker. And then they ate half of them.
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Hey, I'm all for blowjobs every single day but to expect one because it is Father's Day just seems odd to me. Maybe this is because I love to give them and think it is an everyday thing just like intercourse and cunnilingus. My hang up isn't about sex at all.....blowjobs are extremely lovely to give. My thing was this threads title which was the idea that Fathers Day is about receiving blowjobs. If you get one, great, but I hope it is because sex is about your love and commitment or your mutual pleasure, not about being a father. Sorry I went off the rails, btw....it just struck me as really sad for children that the only thing I saw in a thread about Fathers Day is an expectation of a bj. I overreacted and was banned so sorry to all I offended. Maybe this is really a thing I never knew about before that women reward their husbands for being fathers by giving head one time a year...sad. As for those who said their wives liked sex or diamonds on Mothers Day....if it was phrased in a way that made me think that the only reason she acknowledged Mothers Day was to get nailed or jewelry, I would think she was odd and sad too. Again, apologies for being unkind.
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You're "good people" Kitt, welcome back my friend.
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Kitt, there are a series of holidays that get these threads and they are a mix of comic/tragic. I'm among the group of husbands that exist in this alternative universe to yours, where what ought to be regular is instead doled out for special occasions (if even then). The Fathers Day one may be particularly curious, at least for me it holds some extra pain because I am more of a caretaker than a spouse and have kind of written off my life as one of labor with little to expect in return. By the way, nice apology. That's not something seen often online.
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I think there just may be a difference between wanting and expecting. For me it is not a big deal since I get bj's frequently . If we do anything on father's day it is typically because we were able to get the kids to bed early enough, and it just falls into our routine. However, do I think my wife may make an extra attempt on father's day, yes, and there is nothing wrong with this.
I think the issue , I know plenty of mothers who expect to be treated like a queen and showered with gifts from their husand on mothers day as their appreciation (fortunately my wife isn't one of these), so in a case like this I see no issue with a husband expecting sex or a bj on father's day as his appreciation.
And no, father's day is not just a holiday for kids to appreciate their father ...
I think the issue , I know plenty of mothers who expect to be treated like a queen and showered with gifts from their husand on mothers day as their appreciation (fortunately my wife isn't one of these), so in a case like this I see no issue with a husband expecting sex or a bj on father's day as his appreciation.
And no, father's day is not just a holiday for kids to appreciate their father ...
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It's likely not the sucking itself that some women don't like, it's when a man comes in your mouth - it's like a mouth full of snot being shot into your mouth and it aint nice.
I LOVE sex, you name the possie I'll try it. I LOVE going down on hubby, and would happily play, lick, suck every hour on the hour if he wanted me to. But he can't come in my mouth. No way. My chest or body absolutely, but never in my mouth. Eewwww. Sorry, but yuck.
I LOVE sex, you name the possie I'll try it. I LOVE going down on hubby, and would happily play, lick, suck every hour on the hour if he wanted me to. But he can't come in my mouth. No way. My chest or body absolutely, but never in my mouth. Eewwww. Sorry, but yuck.
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