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My wife is pretty reluctant to share fantasies. She has rarely masturbated, so she doesn't have some common fantasy at the ready. When we do talk about it the fantasies are typically about us. Not all fantasies have to be about others. I'm not sure why some people jump straight to that when they talk about sexual fantasies. In fact other people is the farthest thing from my mind. I would have thought this is pretty common.
A least your wife is more open about this than mine even if slightly.
We`ve been married for 34 years, any mention of sex is a no, no with her.
I don`t think my wife has ever masturbated either and if she does have any sexual fantasies she`s never shared them with me.
These days it would probably require a set of jump leads, a blow torch and a months notice to get my wife in the mood.
Sad but true.
 
Sharing fantasies is nothing more than saying "if I could do better than you, I'd be F'ing this and you'd be yesterdays news." You might object to that phrasing, but no one wants to hear "this is my ideal, and you fall short in this area".

Do men really want to hear their woman wants a guy with an incredibly thick 10 inch dong. No ? Not realistic? Then get a clue.
I thought it was about fantasies that somehow switch you on not as competition in one's marriage. If that happens then it is better not to say it to her.
 
We’ve talked fantasy stuff but the Mrs. first response is I’m not have sex with another woman 🤪. But I’ll broach the subject from the perspective of what sexual kinks would you like to try? We have lots of sex but I want to stay on top of it 😁 that it’s not getting dull. So it’s more about fantasy what have you ever thought about, location, more toys, positions, etc. It’s foreplay discussion with wine involved…it works 👍🏻
 
When my wife and I was watching lesbian porn (her choice) I asked why, she said it turned her on and wondered what it would be like as I liked having my head between he legs so much.

She also once said to me if I ever cheated or tried to bring a third person into our marriage she would rip my balls off before leaving me.
 
We’ve talked fantasy stuff but the Mrs. first response is I’m not have sex with another woman 🤪. But I’ll broach the subject from the perspective of what sexual kinks would you like to try? We have lots of sex but I want to stay on top of it 😁 that it’s not getting dull. So it’s more about fantasy what have you ever thought about, location, more toys, positions, etc. It’s foreplay discussion with wine involved…it works 👍🏻
Absolutely! Our last one was FF, and missus totally got into it, sharing great details of what she would do. HOT! … now some here frown on this, but fantasies definitely keep the bedroom exciting.
 
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