[Maricha75]

For my husband? I would consider it cheating. But since he doesn't go to those places and neither do I, it's a moot point. He would consider it cheating, too, btw. My question though, Jack.... if you told your wife about it, what would HER answer be? Honestly, it doesn't matter what everyone else says... what matters is what your SPOUSE feels about it. Same with porn. Some see it as cheating, some don't. Only matters what your spouse thinks and WHY they think that way.

 

[Maricha75]

Jack... I'm curious... did you get this lap dance BEFORE or AFTER your wife had her weight loss surgery? :scratchhead:

 

[Maricha75]

It pisses me right off and makes me very sad at the same time that there are guys like this out there. Guys who think it's OK to get a little action on the side, and as long as their wife doesn't know about it, it won't hurt her. Guys whose wives trust them, and yet who think nothing of what they're doing.

Some kind of marriage that is. You, OP, are a liar and a cheater. You are lying to yourself and to your wife about the fact you cheated on her. You paid another woman and you got your rocks off. Just like if you hired a hooker, or had a happy ending massage.

Yuck.

Sad to say, Hope.... not really surprised

 

[Maricha75]

You ejaculated? Was the stripper basically having clothed sex with you, or you just got overly excited from the visuals and light touching?

Because a standard lap dance sure isn't going to be enough to get most guys to bust their nut. You're leaving out some crucial details here...

Ohhhhh Jaquen, dear, there is a LOT more to his story than "just" this lapdance. I'd suggest reading his other threads to get the full picture.