[GetTough]

Random question.I got a lap dance last year from a woman at a strip club.I never told anyone about it.I was wondering,is this considered cheating?What do you guys think?Why or why not?I wondered about it when it happened,and I just watched a television show where a husband gets a lap dance and the wife gets upset.Curious to see what you all think.

I think you should know what your own standards are.

 

[GetTough]

Yeah I probably would be nervous about telling her.You don't know for sure how she would react and there doesn't seem to be much reason to jeopardize her trust in me by telling her about something that happened a year ago.

What exactly happened in the lap dance. There are lap dances and you know, there are LAP dances.

 

[GetTough]

Very good question.I actually ejaculated.I know,terrible.But that's what happened....I think a bad husband would do something like this and go home,kiss his wife and not think anything of it. I felt guilty and had a conscience,and to a certain degree wished that it didn't happen.So I felt like it was a little different.

So I'm guessing you didn't ejaculate by grinding. Did you pay her to do something extra? Like a BJ or let you jerk off? If so, that goes a little beyond a regular lap dance. It's leaving the realm of men's entertainment and moving into the realm of getting yourself a prostitute.