where to start. I returned to work(full time last year). My husband will not help with anything around the house, inside or out. Will not cook dinner, help clean it up, do a load of laundry, or even bath the kids....tuck them in etc.
He has gotten really bad, he has this attitude that he works and the weekend is "his days off" and he will DO NOTHING on the weekend.
this past weekend he slept until 12pm on Saturday. Got up and hit the couch. Where he stayed until 6pm that night. Then we went out to dinner/ came home and he returned to couch.
Sunday he slept until 2pm...got up and hit the couch once more. stayed there all day. Ate dinner and returned to couch. I asked him during the day if he was going to change his tire on his car and he said "no, it was his day off leave him alone don't bug him!". Well I asked how it would get inspected by the end of the month if he didn't change the tire? He said he would not change it, it's his day off and he'd just have it towed to the garage.
When I said I thought it was a waste of money...he told me "time is money and money is time" and he is not doing it on his day off, so he will pay to have it towed. When I said again about it being a waste of money I was told it is his money and he'll do what he wants.....
below is background on his car/tire
His tire went flat on his car and it's due for inspection by the end of the month. I asked him to change the tire so that I could get it inspected while he is at work and it will be ready to go at the end of the month.(he has to turn in his lease then, and will have to drive this car for work).
I just want to get it taken care of before he is screwed. What will eventually happen is at the end of the month he will panic and have the car towed, the garage will overcharge us for towing and inspection because it's the end of the month and we need the car asap. He will take my car(even though I work and I will be stuck trying to get a ride to and from work, or asking my family to shuffle me around because he will need to get to work.)
So basically what the heck do I do?
How can I get my husband to see that his expectations of "his weekend off" is just crazy. What man out there doesn't lift a finger to do ANYTHING on the weekend.
For the record he doesn't do anything inside or outside of the house either.
We have a lawn man, I take care off all the gardening, mulch, weeding/ painting, garbage, any home maintenance I can possible do. Whatever I can't we have to call someone because he won't do anything on his days off.
He has gotten really bad, he has this attitude that he works and the weekend is "his days off" and he will DO NOTHING on the weekend.
this past weekend he slept until 12pm on Saturday. Got up and hit the couch. Where he stayed until 6pm that night. Then we went out to dinner/ came home and he returned to couch.
Sunday he slept until 2pm...got up and hit the couch once more. stayed there all day. Ate dinner and returned to couch. I asked him during the day if he was going to change his tire on his car and he said "no, it was his day off leave him alone don't bug him!". Well I asked how it would get inspected by the end of the month if he didn't change the tire? He said he would not change it, it's his day off and he'd just have it towed to the garage.
When I said I thought it was a waste of money...he told me "time is money and money is time" and he is not doing it on his day off, so he will pay to have it towed. When I said again about it being a waste of money I was told it is his money and he'll do what he wants.....
below is background on his car/tire
His tire went flat on his car and it's due for inspection by the end of the month. I asked him to change the tire so that I could get it inspected while he is at work and it will be ready to go at the end of the month.(he has to turn in his lease then, and will have to drive this car for work).
I just want to get it taken care of before he is screwed. What will eventually happen is at the end of the month he will panic and have the car towed, the garage will overcharge us for towing and inspection because it's the end of the month and we need the car asap. He will take my car(even though I work and I will be stuck trying to get a ride to and from work, or asking my family to shuffle me around because he will need to get to work.)
So basically what the heck do I do?
How can I get my husband to see that his expectations of "his weekend off" is just crazy. What man out there doesn't lift a finger to do ANYTHING on the weekend.
For the record he doesn't do anything inside or outside of the house either.
We have a lawn man, I take care off all the gardening, mulch, weeding/ painting, garbage, any home maintenance I can possible do. Whatever I can't we have to call someone because he won't do anything on his days off.