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How often is "regular" for couple to have sex?

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I am with you on this, my wife and I are pretty much on the same page. I am a bit more horny than my wife, but she will pleasure me in any way to keep my eyeballs in their sockets. But in general, she is game and seems to be pleased 3-4 times a week. We are in our 50's.
And who ever mentioned vacations, it's at least once a day and continues for the 12 - 14 days on vacation.
For sure, vacations are at least once a day, but then again, that's pretty much the reason we go on vacations (without the kids that is). More power to your wife being in her 50's going 3-4x week. Let me ask you, did menopause slow her down at all? I'm hearing mixed feelings about it, some women seem to be more horny and others seem to have lost their drive altogether.
 
We have been married for 20+ years and feel we are "fairly" active in our sex lives, but how do we know? Would you be willing to share your weekly - monthly number? We try 1 "full" night session....(everything is on the table), 1 quick session and a morning (weekend) fun session where we have some fun...could be intense and full, could be quick, could be oral or just a solo finish.... we often ask ourselves are we active like others?
Married 17 years, 2x a week is about what we do. I can't remember going more than a week without, and can't remember doing it on consecutive days either. We are lucky, our sex drives are spot on the same (at least I think they are....maybe hope is a better word). We have been picking up day time quickies though, but I don't really count those.