We have been married for 20+ years and feel we are "fairly" active in our sex lives, but how do we know? Would you be willing to share your weekly - monthly number? We try 1 "full" night session....(everything is on the table), 1 quick session and a morning (weekend) fun session where we have some fun...could be intense and full, could be quick, could be oral or just a solo finish.... we often ask ourselves are we active like others?