I trust my husband, but there is a female coworker (also married) who insists they be friends outside of work, too. They got to know each other because of an interview story about the people who work at their organization. When she was done, she said that he should write a book. She was formerly a journalist for a local newspaper. When she first said that I thought that was kind of cool. I learned that they were spending time at work taking notes for the book. Then it was time for an interview with my husband's father and I just broke. I said the book would be too intrusive, and my husband told her the next day that I was not comfortable, and the book was off. I already started making notes long before this. Anyway, I think she has a crush on him, and honestly, who wouldn't?
She asked him to go for dinner at their house, and he declined (I wasn't aware at the time, but I was told recently). She asked him again, and he told her to set it up with me. She hasn't yet, and today she asked him again, and he reiterated to set it up with me. I think somewhere for her, there is no couple's friendship, and she just wants him to say yes, we will go, so it will satisfy something for her. She will tolerate me for extra time with him. There is so much more than this, but I wanted to know if anyone had thoughts about why she asked him again instead of contacting me.
She asked him to go for dinner at their house, and he declined (I wasn't aware at the time, but I was told recently). She asked him again, and he told her to set it up with me. She hasn't yet, and today she asked him again, and he reiterated to set it up with me. I think somewhere for her, there is no couple's friendship, and she just wants him to say yes, we will go, so it will satisfy something for her. She will tolerate me for extra time with him. There is so much more than this, but I wanted to know if anyone had thoughts about why she asked him again instead of contacting me.