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Ok, weird question, but it’s been bothering me for some while now. Chances are pretty good that my wife and I will be filing soon for divorce, and the thought of me venturing out on my own has me pretty nervous, for a number of reasons. On a sexual level, I’m concerned about my experience and how it will be perceived on the “open market”.
My wife was my first long time relationship, we’ve been together for 7 years, and also my first sexual partner. I’m 29 now, and I haven’t had intimate relations with anyone else. Due to some issues (I’m not sure why really…) but my wife has never had the interest in cuming… she’s never orgasm, not due to my lack of effort however. When she lets me, I love to use my fingers or go down on her, but she just doesn’t like it (up until recently, she wouldn’t even let me go down as she thought it was gross). I know of a little trauma that she experienced when she was younger, however I think it’s much bigger than she let’s on.
Anyway, I just feel inadequate. Like for whatever reason, I’ve never been able to help her get there. And this damages my psyche. I feel like less of a man because of it.
Anyway, I guess more for the ladies, the question is, based on my history, how would you view someone like me as a potential suitor? Is my history something you see as a potential issue? Would you tend to want to be with someone with more experience? What are your thoughts?
Ok, weird question, but it’s been bothering me for some while now. Chances are pretty good that my wife and I will be filing soon for divorce, and the thought of me venturing out on my own has me pretty nervous, for a number of reasons. On a sexual level, I’m concerned about my experience and how it will be perceived on the “open market”.
My wife was my first long time relationship, we’ve been together for 7 years, and also my first sexual partner. I’m 29 now, and I haven’t had intimate relations with anyone else. Due to some issues (I’m not sure why really…) but my wife has never had the interest in cuming… she’s never orgasm, not due to my lack of effort however. When she lets me, I love to use my fingers or go down on her, but she just doesn’t like it (up until recently, she wouldn’t even let me go down as she thought it was gross). I know of a little trauma that she experienced when she was younger, however I think it’s much bigger than she let’s on.
Anyway, I just feel inadequate. Like for whatever reason, I’ve never been able to help her get there. And this damages my psyche. I feel like less of a man because of it.
Anyway, I guess more for the ladies, the question is, based on my history, how would you view someone like me as a potential suitor? Is my history something you see as a potential issue? Would you tend to want to be with someone with more experience? What are your thoughts?