I am a 29 (30 in a few weeks) I have been in a relationship since jan 2010 . with my prince charming, well at least he is proof that love does exist. my husband( although not married) is the only adult I am surrounded by . he moved in with me the very week we first met. he came over to watch a mopvie talk , maybe cuddle. and he ended up staying the weekend and since then my home became hios. I have 2 children from previous disappointments , poorly my aweful choice in men and baby daddys do not play a part in my childs life. IDK IF IM GIVING TO MANY DETAILS ...SORRY. well he has a daughter who has and is my 3 rd kid. all kids enjoy each others company although they have there issues as most sibling due. my honey and I work together and outside of our home I do not go out to socialize very rarely and all ways with him. (I don't have any friends) well he does how ever get to go to the bar for a few every now and then . I prefer not to go as im not to socially comfortable... but I get hurt he wont invite me to come. but not the issue at hand. ... so he has proposed and I accepted although the actual marriage has been back and forth between each other need to not ( exensive for a wedding,lol) so idk how long but recently things are becoming quite fill with tension, argivation , pain and miss construed ideas that start and follow regular disagreements. It seems as if weekly sometimes bi-weekly we argue quite seriously about ... well he seems to think im the arrgessor and I " abuse and try to control/dictate him , or that I so lack the common intelligence that I cant be talked to so his solution is to force on me the view of my unintelligent daily choices .lets start with beginning events so to say we are very close and holding each other making love reguarlly and then sometimes as we go to sleep are do content it is almost hard to believe that he can love me as much as I love him. then when mornings hes quite quiet and not brumpy not friendly he will be more agrivated by the kids and less lovey with me . I try to think what I could have done or what may have happened and I cant find anything that serious. I will be more stand off ish in hopes he feels better.but no I almost feel he is enjoying of my concern for his happiness. aftera while he will become less and less friendly to me and my kids sense that he is not happy and when his daughters here she will closen up with him.