How long ago was the seperation?
What was the agreement during that time?
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What was the agreement during that time?
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Wouldn't you want to know????
Me and my husband are together for 15 years, 2 years out of the 15 we were separated. What ever happened in our marriage we threw behind us and decided to give this one more shot. My problem is this... I want to know how many women he had been with in the 2 years! I know how sexually active he is and for him to tell me he was only with one women which was way in the beginning of our separation is impossible! On top of that he lied about how he meet her, he makes up stories in his head that he believes... like he believes his own lies! I keep catching him on things.. he is lying about everything.. he don't seem to understand that its just hurting me and I can't move forward like this. We have had outburst on this matter and Im just ready to walk again! I don't know what else to do or say for him to understand that its important for me to know. I just want us to have an open and honest relationship and he just don't get that! Is there something wrong with me wanting to know what he was doing in the 2 years we were not together? 
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He always lied to me about everything in the marriage.. and when we got back together I told him NO MORE LIES. I love him and we all make mistakes and when you love someone you love them no matter what they do.. it makes them who they are. I don't even know anymore. I agree with what you say, but I just cant make myself accept that. Thanks for the luck
Your welcome. I am going to be blunt which might come off as rude but that isn't my meaning.He always lied to me about everything in the marriage.. and when we got back together I told him NO MORE LIES. I love him and we all make mistakes and when you love someone you love them no matter what they do.. it makes them who they are. I don't even know anymore. I agree with what you say, but I just cant make myself accept that. Thanks for the luck
If he lied about everything in the marriage and he is starting to lie again to you again then he will never change. It's almost like once a cheater always a cheater. It makes me sad for you that you let your wall down and gave him another chance and he chooses to crap on you all over again. I would tell him flat out. ONE MORE LIE I'm gone and there is NO MORE CHANCES. Be firm and say what you mean and mean what you say.
Your not being rude at all!! Your just right....Your welcome. I am going to be blunt which might come off as rude but that isn't my meaning.
If he lied about everything in the marriage and he is starting to lie again to you again then he will never change. It's almost like once a cheater always a cheater. It makes me sad for you that you let your wall down and gave him another chance and he chooses to crap on you all over again. I would tell him flat out. ONE MORE LIE I'm gone and there is NO MORE CHANCES. Be firm and say what you mean and mean what you say.
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