My husband and I have been married for 17 years and separated for six months. He left because he said that he wasn't in love with me any more and that we had just grown apart. Of course, I suspected that there was an OW in the picture because of the way he was acting so secretively, but he adamantly denied it. Now, the OW has contacted me and asked to meet because she says we have a lot to talk about. She apologized for hurting me and my family. Would meeting her make me feel better or worse?