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I tried asking this in the Reconciliation forum, but decided to try posting it here since I am not actually reconciling:

This is just a hypothetical question~but something I have been wondering about only. I think what has brought it on, is feeling sorry for myself for the situation I am now in-single and raising my kids in another state than my STBX lives in. I am not thinking about getting back together with my husband, but just want opinions on this: that if your spouse was truly remorseful for an affair he had and you could forgive, would you get back together if the kids were still young and wanted their Dad around more however, you were no longer attracted to him sexually? It doesn't mean the sex didn't happen during the time we were married, but the attraction had been gone for a very long time and you knew there was no way you were getting it back? (He still does not seem to "get" that his affair was so damaging; in fact he still works with his AP in his office.) I think a good marriage counselor could have helped him realize this, but it really is too late now. I just want to hear what people think? When I picture this situation, I think of it as being slightly unhappy, but would it be more beneficial for them until they got older? I just think there are always some issues that are present in marriage, and other people accept them, so why didn't I? Feeling really guilty today for the choice I made to move away~
 
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