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Women, what is your normal desire for sex?

  • Daily or more?

    Votes: 45 20.9%
  • 5-6 times a week?

    Votes: 22 10.2%
  • 3-5 times a week?

    Votes: 77 35.8%
  • 1-2 times a week?

    Votes: 50 23.3%
  • 1 time every two weeks?

    Votes: 4 1.9%
  • 1 time every 3 weeks?

    Votes: 3 1.4%
  • 1 time a month?

    Votes: 4 1.9%
  • Less than 1 time a month?

    Votes: 5 2.3%
  • Never want sex?

    Votes: 5 2.3%

  • Total voters
    215
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Only want women to answer the poll.

Answer what you would like for the frequency of sex, not how much you may or may not being it at this time.

If you are man, please do not answer the poll. But of course you are free to post.
 

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3 votes in it sure is looking that way. Good god where do you horny women come from? :scratchhead::D
Apparently a lot of horny women end up with the same fate as a lot of horny men.... a spouse who does not want sex. It's like the marriage gods have a very sick sense of humor.
 

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I am a daily kind of woman. Getting it now but in my past marriage, well I can't be bothered saying but was very sexless due to an emotionally stunted husband.
Yep, been there, done that with an ex.
 

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At 43 I'm horny all the time so my answer is daily but if you asked me the last time I had sex or the last time my husband kissed me the answer would be a long long time ago.

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My sex drive has always been high. It is finally slowing down a bit but in a perfect world I would still go for it at least once per day. But that doesn't mean the same type of sex everyday. There are lots of types of sex and lots of ways to enjoy intimacy so when I say everyday, I don't necessarily mean getting my brains pounded out every day.

But definitely at least twice per week for pounding. Another two times per week for slow and sensual love making. Two times of maybe mutual oral or mutual masturbation or even one-way oral or masturbation depending on the mood. Plus at least once or twice of some crazy azz circus sex.
 

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Answer what you would like for the frequency of sex, not how much you may or may not being it at this time.
Even though we are a little less than this.. I know he'd say the same as me... we'd both choose Daily to 5-6 times a week ....just makes you feel YOUNG & vibrant.. kinda like this...



5 yrs ago I would have answered 3 times a day... that was TOO HIGH, what was wrong with [email protected]#$... Frustrating when he couldn't keep up.. this has so much passed...but I'll never forget this time in our lives...I turned up the heat..... we tried everything, anything to keep the novelty going.... I was pushing his limits!! ...even caused him some performance pressure ...yet he never pushed me away , even told me to put my toys away & come to him.. I don't think I ever felt so loved in that moment.
 

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I don't think these results represent reality. Women who read forums and threads like these are likely more intrested in sex than the average woman so therefore the results get skewed.

Most normal women do not want sex 3-5 times a week or more.
Possibly, but my wife has never been on a forum and she fits into the 3-5 times a week category.

Poor thing, I'm injured right now and sex would just about kill me. I looked into her eyes last night and said 'you're horny as hell aren't you?" Her response softly "Yes"

Pulled out the vibes and an hour later she felt fine. :)
 

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I don't think these results represent reality. Women who read forums and threads like these are likely more intrested in sex than the average woman so therefore the results get skewed.

Most normal women do not want sex 3-5 times a week or more.
Only speaking for myself.. I have enjoyed forums for YEARS before I came here.. never entertained a sex forum (I was satisfied)... It WAS my insatiable sex drive /hormonal surge that got me posting HERE.. ...otherwise I think I would have fallen prey to seeking out porn sites... (awful thing to admit , isn't it !)...suddenly I felt like a Testosterone raging young man...

TAM was by far the healthier distraction...I was buying & reading so many books on sex, spicing, & the role of our Hormones -why MINE was surging while he was slowing down (I was thinking "
I missed his best years!").... I felt I could contribute many things here.. it took the edge off...keeping my mind occupied while he was at work..

Before that spell I suppose I was average...always loved making love.. but wasn't paramount on the brain.. wasn't thinking about it , planning on jumping him when he walked through the door...

I got a real taste of how MEN FEEL , what they struggle with .....I suddenly had the greatest sympathy for hungry husbands...and realized how I hurt my H in the past, not "getting it".

Seems an unfair Joke the Gods play on us ...that men are in their sexual Prime in their early 20's...and many of us women don't hit our peak till 20 yrs later !
 

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I'm allllmost 30.

5 times a week is perfect. 6 times if I can be totally selfish one of those days. :)
 
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