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My H gave the ILYBNILWY speech about three weeks ago. He also said i deserved better and that he just wanted to be alone. He is self employed and the past year has been difficult. He never takes a day off, or very rarely. I know he was saying some time before that he felt like he didn't know who he was anymore. We've had a very good marriage I think, no arguments, lots of affection and communication, although he often doesn't open up to me. Sex was a bit lacking in the last year due to stress on both our parts. I love him very much and we have been married 12 years. We've always supported each other and encouraged each to be the best we could be. There was always much affection between us.
He gave me the speech on the phone from Ireland where he goes for work. (we live on the uk). And he has stayed there since. He has a very good friend there who had put him up in a b&b. There is no OW. My H isnt talking to me, he texts about finances now and again, thats it. He hasn't been in touch with any friends, or his sister who he is very close to.
I am doing the 180. I have been NC except once or twice when I tried to tak to him but he said he wanted to be alone. I think he may be depressed.
Any advice? Any thoughts?
He gave me the speech on the phone from Ireland where he goes for work. (we live on the uk). And he has stayed there since. He has a very good friend there who had put him up in a b&b. There is no OW. My H isnt talking to me, he texts about finances now and again, thats it. He hasn't been in touch with any friends, or his sister who he is very close to.
I am doing the 180. I have been NC except once or twice when I tried to tak to him but he said he wanted to be alone. I think he may be depressed.
Any advice? Any thoughts?