Well you are for sure correct in your viewpoint. More concerned about his pleasure than your health.isn’t fair that he went for years being a chicken regarding a vasectomy but now wants to pressure me to make this happen for him. I worry what he will do if he can’t get his way.
The issue now isn’t vasectomy. Her body cant tolerate anything entering her right now. Makes no difference if he is shooting blanks now.The pull out method is how my gf now wife got pregnant. Daughter is 14 and I joke with my wife she is the best accidental mistake ever! I remember when she was an infant I got her a onsie that had a depiction of a sperm and had the caption Daddys Little Squirt 🤣
Tell him to quit being a baby and just get snipped lol. There is nothing to it. I got to take two valium an hour before and felt like I was wasted on a bottle of jack daniels lol. She babied me for two days while I watched tv. After healing, I had to ejaculate 25 times and then submit a sample. She got a notebook, bottle of lube, and said I will take care of that part 😀.
She stopped taking the pill and I got the clear. The procedure doesn't affect sensation, volume, erection, testosterone, or anything. The procedure itself is painless, just a lot of pressure like having a tooth pulled. Seing smoke rise from the nuts was funny during the procedure but was worth it. Process took 15 minutes and left a tiny scar that I couldn't care less about. They aren't winning a beauty contest lol
Then recently she experienced the following:I acquired vulvadynia as a result- hyper irritated tissues that are highly sensitive now.
She isn't sure, but is concerned him ejaculating into her irritated her down there. She needed a break for awhile. And he is telling her that this is a huge deal for him, maybe a deal breaker. If he had gotten clipped years ago he could have been living the dream for years before OP started having problems. That ship has sailed. It doesn't matter if he gets clipped now because that wont change his semen much at all, at the pH of his semen is likely the problem and it is upsetting the pH balance in her vulva which is evidently fouled up already. OP's "husband" is acting like a big baby instead of a man.One night I was out at the grocery store experiencing a flare up down there. I needed some emotional support from him. I call him up and spend 10 min or so describing the burning and itching. Side note- we had actually had sex a few days prior and I told him it was ok to ejaculate inside me. It was tingling afterwards, and it had been irritated since. I told him we need to back off doing that for a while.
Well the thing is, the vasectomy can be reversed. My doctor when I was clipped 4 decades ago after we had our fourth child told me that if wanted to reverse it in the future could be accomplished easily. In fact, he said then that sometimes the tubes can reattach on their own if the original procedure doesn't cut a long enough section out. Anyway, in my case already had 4 kids by the wife, and even if we had split at a future date, had no desire for any more offspring. The wife was thinking to have tubes ties with birth of the last child, I told her absolutely not, the vas procedure much simpler with lower risk.One of Julie's friends had her hubby get a vasectomy and then went out and had tubal ligation, somehow without him knowing, so she could play around. She was a man hunter and not worried about whether they were married.
Then she left him after talking him into not being able to start a new family when she left.
As a side note, she had blue eyes that were to die for and a pretty nice bum. I used to ride my bike behind her and Julie with the supposed purpose of being a shield from errant drivers.
Again, a vasectomy isn't going to prevent fluids from him causing problems with her vagina. So, if he wants any loving he is going to have to use a condom from now on. Of course acting like an a$$ isn't going to get him any loving anyway.So your husband doesn’t consider you at all and how sex with him negatively affects your body.
So don’t have sex with him. At all. Until he agrees to wear a condom every time it gets a vasectomy - AND starts considering how YOU must feel!
He is seriously selfish. And that never makes for a good sex partner. If he won’t change you shouldn’t stay with him.
From article in Forbes:appointment and the Dr can explain what's going on and why his sperm is irritating you. He needs to understand how this is affecting your health and your well-being.
