[Talker67]

Withdrawl method? seriously?
you are SOOOOO LUCKY you did not get pregnant again.
get a box of ultra thin condoms, and simply tell him he need to use one from now on if he ever wants PIV sex with you again.

there is a rare condition where a woman's vagina becomes allergic to her man's cum. i wonder if this is an issue with you?

Sadly, cunniligus is probably not a good idea for you either, since the risk of infecting yourself is high there too.

its going to be either toys, or condoms, no more PIV sex at all, maybe just some rubbing on the outside....

 

[Talker67]

Meanwhile, if intercourse hurts, don't do it. If you are in menopause, can you even still get pregnant? If not, the vasectomy is irrelevant at this point. It doesn't stop him ejaculating.

oh yes!
Until you have waited X many months AFTER stopping having periods, you are still at risk for getting pregnant. i forget what X was, but it was a relatively large number

 

[Talker67]

It's a year by most literature and 2 by some

yeah i vaguely remember waiting a LONG time.

i hated condoms. yet due to medical reasons (past blood clots) birth control was not an option.

 

[Talker67]

not to seem crass, but there is a different entry for Penis related sex...have you tried that? He might be happy with that, along with other things like BJs.