Doc:
Sad your last post - know that the folks here have listened to the music, seen the show, and walked the path. Our posts were, each with our own words, trying to convey to you what we perceived from what you typed for us to read.
Now whatever it is that has come to the light, know that if you need a place to journal - this place can be that of a sort. And when you post your
questions and worries, folks here can help digest same.
In a odd sort of way, my thinking, seeing someone survive and thrive after infidelity helps us to also live a little bit better with our own history.
remember the cliche' - Misery loves company?
Most of us neither cheer divorce or cheer for reconciliation. We cheer for each betrayed to find their self respect, self confidence, courage to deal
with the heartbreak, the dissolution of our dreams and the loss of our partner whom we thought was for life "till death do us part."
We all survived the pain and agony of betrayal. The many different voices here will add points to consider as you walk your path. And also point
out the many pitfalls that await you -
Whether you stay together or not, you will have to learn to live with the history you have and will continue to create. Can you do that?
You can - and you can thrive but it is you that must work to heal yourself. Will your spouse change and help you heal? You have to gamble that if you stay.
