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dear ladies, i have a story about my problem with my alcoholic husband :(
I have been married for 2 years and in our 1st year, i almost pissed off every single day / weekend because he always drunk
Before we married, we just through long distance relationship and he never told me he has problem as an alcoholic person, which is i will reconsider about it before make my decision

He was promised with me, will be change, and reduced and just drink on friday nite and weekend.
But still, it's kinda pissed me off everytime i saw him hangover, because he just love to laying on bed, do nothing, even watch tv then fall asleep.

And on weekend, what i want is spending time together with him, with condition he is sober not too hangover, which is makes him so lazy and talk nonsense annoying thing

Couple months, i tried to ignore him every friday nite because i knew it already will be so crazy again. When he gets drunk, he never hit me, just being annoying. Sometimes i just can go away, sitting in front of my laptop talking with friends, but sometimes i feel angry, i feel i can't take this anymore. i feel i wanna go away, leaving him

He always said he adores, love me so much, will be dying if i leave him, but if he always like that, my feelings to him become change a bit, i feel like he just lie with me talk bull****. If he really loves me, he will try all the best to be change at least

I told him many times, i feel like this, because i worry about him, about his health. i said the only 1 who will ruin this marriage wasn't me, but him

I don't know what to do anymore, i am just ordinary person, sometimes my mood can't accept that, sometimes i just can be ignore him. I am afraid someday i am really can't take this anymore and will leaving him :(

thank you
 
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