Not sure to post here but it kinda does come up in here so someone can move if they choose
I've noticed in the DD CM thread again a comment about the 'I had never had my wild sex time in my early 20's' as a subconscious delayed excuse for later straying outside the marriage.
In mstbxw it built up 'inside' and in my own marriage become a weird retrospective back dated area for great resentment that was later flung at me as one of the few odd reasons for her later behavior
Frankly I think that's complete b***ocks. If you happily fell in love with someone and during that time were happy and fulfilled how can you then ten years later start using it as a reason for previous 'resentment and unhappiness !!?? mmm...
However I have noticed this 'reason' appearing more and more and have not noticed it said by men!
I probably am wrong but really this is an exclusive woman thing as far as I can see and I've noticed it more and more. One of my best friends said last night to me his wife a couple of years ago said the same thing
So girls is this a factor in your psyche?
I have not honestly heard this from a man once - maybe I've missed it.
Personally I never felt that and I did also explain to my stbxw "it's also not all it's cracked up to be either so you probably did'nt miss that much" but she went on to sow her wild oats in her later 20's and throughout her 30's as it seems almost some kind of weird punishment
Is this a girl thing ?
I've noticed in the DD CM thread again a comment about the 'I had never had my wild sex time in my early 20's' as a subconscious delayed excuse for later straying outside the marriage.
In mstbxw it built up 'inside' and in my own marriage become a weird retrospective back dated area for great resentment that was later flung at me as one of the few odd reasons for her later behavior
Frankly I think that's complete b***ocks. If you happily fell in love with someone and during that time were happy and fulfilled how can you then ten years later start using it as a reason for previous 'resentment and unhappiness !!?? mmm...
However I have noticed this 'reason' appearing more and more and have not noticed it said by men!
I probably am wrong but really this is an exclusive woman thing as far as I can see and I've noticed it more and more. One of my best friends said last night to me his wife a couple of years ago said the same thing
So girls is this a factor in your psyche?
I have not honestly heard this from a man once - maybe I've missed it.
Personally I never felt that and I did also explain to my stbxw "it's also not all it's cracked up to be either so you probably did'nt miss that much" but she went on to sow her wild oats in her later 20's and throughout her 30's as it seems almost some kind of weird punishment
Is this a girl thing ?