What a load of bovine excrement.From a conversation we had today, that got heated. This sums up her thoughts, on paper I'm a good husband, but am I the right one for her she doesn't know. She's on a path of self discovery, can't nor won't have an answer till January do to the fact she'll have a job and won't be in school so she can rest assured that her decision comes from the thought she could support herself if worse comes to worse. She's not actively pursuing anyone other than herself. Along with shes doing this not to spite me or hurt me, that's it's been years building up, but she can't decide basically if it's her issues alone, or issues with the marriage. I've already talked to the kids and laid it out instead of it being some big surprise to them, of course only the oldest knows truly the problem at hand. I'll be in touch with the necessary people starting tomorrow.