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Hi everyone. I will try not to make this too long.
My wife, I have been with for a short while. We got married in May, but before we got married, we were together for about 2 years or so. Here's the story:
She had been married before and had a child with him when she was 18. She got separated. I met her at a restaurant/bar/club type place when she was 24. We trade numbers. I talk to her on and off for a year. We date other people during this year but stay in contact through facebook. We end up getting together after the year.
One night we are drinking and I ask her if she has ever done anything crazy. She says she has had 2 threesomes (both FFM). Not cool in my eyes. I thought she was some innocent housewife who was perfect.
Then I find on her computer one day an email to a friend of hers that pretty much went this way:
"i really like him, he is way bigger than anyone i have ever been with and my thighs are all bruised up, we had to shower over and over and we got so sweaty and we had sex so many times throughout the day, i love being naked with him and I can barely walk!"
wtf.
then i find out she had a *** buddy. she didnt want a relationship, she just had sex with him alot.
all of this happened in the year that i was talking to her. it has had a huge impact on our relationship. i have felt inferior and feel that she was just not worth my time.
however, i got through it, and she is a GREAT person now and i just cant see how someone like her did all of this.
now we are married, with a baby on the way, and i STILL cant get over this stuff. someone please help me. am i being rediculous? everytime I mention it to her she gets mad because it starts a huge fight because she said she found out that her husband had been cheating on her and she went crazy.
someone help me figure this out. am i being irrational? or should i have never married her???
My wife, I have been with for a short while. We got married in May, but before we got married, we were together for about 2 years or so. Here's the story:
She had been married before and had a child with him when she was 18. She got separated. I met her at a restaurant/bar/club type place when she was 24. We trade numbers. I talk to her on and off for a year. We date other people during this year but stay in contact through facebook. We end up getting together after the year.
One night we are drinking and I ask her if she has ever done anything crazy. She says she has had 2 threesomes (both FFM). Not cool in my eyes. I thought she was some innocent housewife who was perfect.
Then I find on her computer one day an email to a friend of hers that pretty much went this way:
"i really like him, he is way bigger than anyone i have ever been with and my thighs are all bruised up, we had to shower over and over and we got so sweaty and we had sex so many times throughout the day, i love being naked with him and I can barely walk!"
wtf.
then i find out she had a *** buddy. she didnt want a relationship, she just had sex with him alot.
all of this happened in the year that i was talking to her. it has had a huge impact on our relationship. i have felt inferior and feel that she was just not worth my time.
however, i got through it, and she is a GREAT person now and i just cant see how someone like her did all of this.
now we are married, with a baby on the way, and i STILL cant get over this stuff. someone please help me. am i being rediculous? everytime I mention it to her she gets mad because it starts a huge fight because she said she found out that her husband had been cheating on her and she went crazy.
someone help me figure this out. am i being irrational? or should i have never married her???