My wife has suffered from Depression for most of our marriage. She had our first child and her parents got divorced all in the same short span of time. During all of that she started taking anti-depressants and 20 years later she is still on them. She has spent a lot of time sleeping thru our marriage leaving me with lots of responsibilities that I think most stay at home moms would consider the moms job. In a lot of ways I have come to a place where I have accepted my lot in life but I also feel bitter towards what I have had to endure. I have been ready to break up the marriage for many years. Today I read something (not sure who wrote it) that I thought was interesting and I would like to know someone else’s thoughts on this. “Don't trust your heart to people with emotional problems, because they don't have the ability to properly care for it.” When I read this I almost started to cry because for me it is so true, my wife complexly lacks the ability to care about me and it probably steams from her own inner struggle. Does anyone with a spouse that has emotional problems agree or disagree with this statement? I would love to know anyone else’s thoughts.