Yes.Really are you married??
Does your wife go to the bar without your consent?
My wife doesn't need my consent, though she does not go to bars without me by choice. We have mutual respect for eachother and take care of our marriage. I can only control me and if there was a lack of respect on her part I would speak to her about it. If it continued then we would no longer be married. See how that works? Communication and control over one's self.