My wife text her best "guy friend" all of the time. I'm not talking about 30 or 40 a day. I've counted up to 400 in one day before. She says its just friend talk and that he is a good Christian guy and it's innocent, yet when I ask to see the texts she refuses and says I dont trust her. I WISH she would talk to me that much, but I dont get as much attention as he does. I've never met the guy and they never physically hang out. Is this ok for her to do this? Am I just being paranoid?