I wrote about a month back about overhearing my wife talking about one of her clients that she sees once a month. She is a hairstylist. I found out that she was "crazy about him" and "soo attracted" to him. This guys is in her 60's and she is 42. We had a rough few weeks dealing with it. She told me that she was over it but lo and behold I saw facebook messages to another client of her's yesterday talking about her continuing attraction. Note she explicitly says that it is fantasy and she would not want to actually act on this. But this sh*t is hard for me to read and deal with. I know for a fact that there is no communication between her and the OM so take that as a fact. But nonetheless she lied and told me she was over it but it is continuing. In her messages with her friend she is trying to figure out why this is happening. I don't know what to do at this point. She hasn't actually cheated or even communicated with the guy but this is hard to deal with. Any advice would be appreciated.