I'm a young man and i just got married in June 2012. My wife and me did good for the first month or so then things started to go down hill. I've felt like she was putting distance between us. We fought multiple times and have not been having conversations like we use to. I've done my best to try and close the distance I've felt and tried to do more activities with her like going on walks but the distance still feels the same. I have adhd and I know that that can cause problems with relationships and all but i do my best to give her all my attention but on new years eve she told me that her love for me isn't what it use to be and that she has developed feelings for another man and this hurt me really badly. She says that she wants to be with me but she wants to still be friends with the man she has feelings for. Would it be wrong of me to have her chose? Can someone please help me make the best decision for my marriage.