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I would like advise, suggestion on this fantasy for my wife. We have been very happily married for 30 years. Sex life is good. Wife takes good care of me. She can be very sexual. We like to keep it fresh and it's great. She has never been with another man but me. She is a Christian so she comes off not being into erotic videos. We do watch some if she is loosened up by a drink or two. Secretly I think she is very aroused by it but I don't push it.

To get things hot, I have tried to get her to tell me some of her fantasies. She claims not to have any but on a few occasions she says a fantasy would be for me to pick her up, as a stranger in a hotel bar and go up to my room and have sex. She has said this a few times so I think maybe she might really be into it.

So I want to make this happen but I don't think either of us have those acting skills to pull it off. So I have been thinking I need a third party to facilitate this plan. Here is my idea:

Take her to Las Vegas on a weekend outing. She would know we are going for fantasy adventure but not know the full plan. I would get two rooms. One a suite with a separate bedroom and one regular room for her until we meet up.

I would hire a classy profession female role playing escort to approach her at hotel bar, flirt with her while getting a drink two in her. Escort tells her she is meeting husband for their anniversary. My wife is very friendly and beautiful, people love her and she like to get to know others so I think this would work. I would then come into the bar, of course as the escorts husband and get introduced. Fake wife would invite wife to table, more flirting, etc. Fake wife invites her to "our room" for more drinks. Maybe while approaching the room she takes her hand walking her into room making my wife's heart race. In the room we get to know each other better, fake wife asks me about how beautiful my wife is, etc..... At the right time fake wife tells her that it has alway been her "fake" husband fantasy to have sex with another beautiful women. Moves us into bedroom, flirts with her, asks her if she would like #%+? Her husband. She manipulates us together, tells us she she is going to get another drink while we get to know each other. Fake wife leaves the room. Then leaves completely but my wife does not know that and has thrill / anxiety of not knowing if she's coming back.

Then it's on.

Is this over the top and way to much? Any suggestions, concerns? I think she would love. She comes of being conservative but is secretly very sexual.

Any advise appreciated
 

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I would like advise, suggestion on this fantasy for my wife. We have been very happily married for 30 years. Sex life is good. Wife takes good care of me. She can be very sexual. We like to keep it fresh and it's great. She has never been with another man but me. She is a Christian so she comes off not being into erotic videos. We do watch some if she is loosened up by a drink or two. Secretly I think she is very aroused by it but I don't push it.

To get things hot, I have tried to get her to tell me some of her fantasies. She claims not to have any but on a few occasions she says a fantasy would be for me to pick her up, as a stranger in a hotel bar and go up to my room and have sex. She has said this a few times so I think maybe she might really be into it.

So I want to make this happen but I don't think either of us have those acting skills to pull it off. So I have been thinking I need a third party to facilitate this plan. Here is my idea:

Take her to Las Vegas on a weekend outing. She would know we are going for fantasy adventure but not know the full plan. I would get two rooms. One a suite with a separate bedroom and one regular room for her until we meet up.

I would hire a classy profession female role playing escort to approach her at hotel bar, flirt with her while getting a drink two in her. Escort tells her she is meeting husband for their anniversary. My wife is very friendly and beautiful, people love her and she like to get to know others so I think this would work. I would then come into the bar, of course as the escorts husband and get introduced. Fake wife would invite wife to table, more flirting, etc. Fake wife invites her to "our room" for more drinks. Maybe while approaching the room she takes her hand walking her into room making my wife's heart race. In the room we get to know each other better, fake wife asks me about how beautiful my wife is, etc..... At the right time fake wife tells her that it has alway been her "fake" husband fantasy to have sex with another beautiful women. Moves us into bedroom, flirts with her, asks her if she would like #%+? Her husband. She manipulates us together, tells us she she is going to get another drink while we get to know each other. Fake wife leaves the room. Then leaves completely but my wife does not know that and has thrill / anxiety of not knowing if she's coming back.

Then it's on.

Is this over the top and way to much? Any suggestions, concerns? I think she would love. She comes of being conservative but is secretly very sexual.

Any advise appreciated

I have no personal experience with this but I am guessing that the escort is going to want full wages if she is on her knees or in an amateur production of 9 1/2 weeks. Won't that be kind of pricey for?

Are you sure this is not your fantasy and you hope your wife decides she wants the other women to stay? This could go very badly.

Your plan is OK but skip high priced flesh prop and and just play it up for your wife. Take acting lessons at night if you have to and stay in character even if she doesn't. She would probably think it was pretty cool that you went through that trouble. Problem solved...
 

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yeah... I don't know about this one. I know some people would totally love that, but it sounds like she just wants the pick up scenario to involve you and her most likely, theres a few episodes of Modern Family in which Claire and Phil make this an annual tradition on Valentine's day to pretend to be strangers at a hotel bar and sleep together. You should go for something like that. If it were me and I had no idea that an escort, or even just a random woman I didn't know, was going to be involved I'd be pissed at my husband the whole time thinking it was leading to a threesome and would completely ruin the pick up fantasy for me. I would not be ok with that at all. MAYBE if the woman just was acting it up at the bar and didn't go up to the room that'd be better. LIke she introduced your wife to her "husband" and then left you two alone and things ensued, in keeping with the role playing. But you know your wife best.
 

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I'm with Faithful Wife on this. Reading your ideas made me smile thinking of how fun this could be. But your wife would have to be the kind of person who can go with the flow, not feel intimidated, not feel rejected or judged by the presence of another woman (and if she is an escort I'm thinking she might present herself as overtly sexual which would be threatening to your wife)

I think you should take your wife to Vegas, but maybe start the trip off at some bar where you pick her up. You invent a new name and she invents a new name and the whole weekend you both pretend to be someone else!
 

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I would like advise, suggestion on this fantasy for my wife. We have been very happily married for 30 years. Sex life is good. Wife takes good care of me. She can be very sexual. We like to keep it fresh and it's great. She has never been with another man but me. She is a Christian so she comes off not being into erotic videos. We do watch some if she is loosened up by a drink or two. Secretly I think she is very aroused by it but I don't push it.

To get things hot, I have tried to get her to tell me some of her fantasies. She claims not to have any but on a few occasions she says a fantasy would be for me to pick her up, as a stranger in a hotel bar and go up to my room and have sex. She has said this a few times so I think maybe she might really be into it.

So I want to make this happen but I don't think either of us have those acting skills to pull it off. So I have been thinking I need a third party to facilitate this plan. Here is my idea:

Take her to Las Vegas on a weekend outing. She would know we are going for fantasy adventure but not know the full plan. I would get two rooms. One a suite with a separate bedroom and one regular room for her until we meet up.

I would hire a classy profession female role playing escort to approach her at hotel bar, flirt with her while getting a drink two in her. Escort tells her she is meeting husband for their anniversary. My wife is very friendly and beautiful, people love her and she like to get to know others so I think this would work. I would then come into the bar, of course as the escorts husband and get introduced. Fake wife would invite wife to table, more flirting, etc. Fake wife invites her to "our room" for more drinks. Maybe while approaching the room she takes her hand walking her into room making my wife's heart race. In the room we get to know each other better, fake wife asks me about how beautiful my wife is, etc..... At the right time fake wife tells her that it has alway been her "fake" husband fantasy to have sex with another beautiful women. Moves us into bedroom, flirts with her, asks her if she would like #%+? Her husband. She manipulates us together, tells us she she is going to get another drink while we get to know each other. Fake wife leaves the room. Then leaves completely but my wife does not know that and has thrill / anxiety of not knowing if she's coming back.

Then it's on.

Is this over the top and way to much? Any suggestions, concerns? I think she would love. She comes of being conservative but is secretly very sexual.

Any advise appreciated

You have a beautiful thing, a wife that has not been touched by another man. Be careful with the fantasy talk. You don't want to plant any seeds that can take root and destroy what you have.
 

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Sorry, but that is way to complicated and bringing in a 3rd person is a recipe for disaster. Keep it simple. She goes to a bar, maybe wearing a wig. You go later wearing something other than your usual clothes and pick her up and bring her back to a hotel.

Adding the escort will give the impression that you are looking for a 3some, and unless she has expressed interest in that, this would be playing to your fantasy, not hers.
 

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The real fantasy is that she desires a hookup with an alpha male who is handsome and strong and will not take no for an answer. He is confident and sure. He is dressed well and is noticed by other women, but she is his choice. If you take the road you describe, she may decide it's more fun than marriage, without prior knowledge of the plan.

Be that man she desires, or as close as you can. She will respect you for the effort and love you more for trying. It may not solve your issues, but you can know and accept you did all you can.

Edit: She doesn't want force from you. She would want this man to be confident enough to know when to stop and not be angry about her putting the brakes on.
 
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I would be freaked out if my husband hired a prostitute, doesn't matter if she wasn't going to sleep with him. I think this is more about your fantasies than hers.

I agree with 2ntuf. She wants YOU to do the picking up not some woman intermediary. That's just looks weak and passive.
 

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Thanks for everyone's input. I really appreciate it from a womens perspective. I got a great thing going and don't want to screw it up. I will back down the plan considerably and get her more involved in the plan as opposed to surprising her.
 

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Try it at home. If she is bi-curious, get a dress, wig and a strapon harness that you can put over the real thing. If she is curious about sex with another man then blindfold her, let her be by herself for a while, then come in and pretent to be a stranger who lovingly takes her while not using your usual moves or talking to her in your normal voice.

The humand mind is the largest sex organ. Role playing doesn't require 3rd parties or elaborate locations.

Just make sure you talk about what it is that she wants to get out of the role playing and make sure she gets it in a way that doesn't scare her, make her feel threatened or harm your marriage.

Good luck.
 

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Nope--prostitution is only legal in licensed brothels out in the boonies. The cops probably turn a blind eye on the strip though.

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Nope--prostitution is only legal in licensed brothels out in the boonies. The cops probably turn a blind eye on the strip though.

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hmmmm they have those driving billboards with phone numbers to call to hire girls though, they constantly drive up and down the strip. As well as the dudes that hand out the cards.
 
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