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HI -
I am new to the forum. I have a serious problem and need to find a way to get the love of my life back. Any help is most appreciated.
So, let me start out with a situation that happened two years ago...YES, I said two years. As any guy knows, masturbation simply did not end when you got married. I have been married for 20 years! Well, you know how it goes. What happened to basically END my sex life was that I simply got "caught" masturbating by my wife. I did not think it was a big deal but obviously it was. For some reason, that automatically became that I was cheating on her! Just so you know, I take my vows very seriously. I would never do that to her...I hope.
Since that day, there has been a "wall of pillows" per say put in the middle of our bed. I have tried to initiate intamacy with her but to no avail...I have failed.
Earlier in our relationship, we had purchased some vibrators to spicethings up a bit. Now, I feel I have been replaced by them. Believe me when I say I keep tabs on her toys and where they are in her nightstand. I know the position of them daily so that I know when she is using them. Lately, it has been every other day. So, have I been replaced?
I love my wife to my dying day and would never do anything to jeapordize our relationship....yet...I need to have sex with her!
What can I do to re-kindle what we once had or is a friends with benefits deal acceptable? My wife is number 1 of course, but quite frankly I am sick and tired of getting off without her. I really need some help here. There is NO WAY she would ever consider counciling.
HELP!!!
I am new to the forum. I have a serious problem and need to find a way to get the love of my life back. Any help is most appreciated.
So, let me start out with a situation that happened two years ago...YES, I said two years. As any guy knows, masturbation simply did not end when you got married. I have been married for 20 years! Well, you know how it goes. What happened to basically END my sex life was that I simply got "caught" masturbating by my wife. I did not think it was a big deal but obviously it was. For some reason, that automatically became that I was cheating on her! Just so you know, I take my vows very seriously. I would never do that to her...I hope.
Since that day, there has been a "wall of pillows" per say put in the middle of our bed. I have tried to initiate intamacy with her but to no avail...I have failed.
Earlier in our relationship, we had purchased some vibrators to spicethings up a bit. Now, I feel I have been replaced by them. Believe me when I say I keep tabs on her toys and where they are in her nightstand. I know the position of them daily so that I know when she is using them. Lately, it has been every other day. So, have I been replaced?
I love my wife to my dying day and would never do anything to jeapordize our relationship....yet...I need to have sex with her!
What can I do to re-kindle what we once had or is a friends with benefits deal acceptable? My wife is number 1 of course, but quite frankly I am sick and tired of getting off without her. I really need some help here. There is NO WAY she would ever consider counciling.
HELP!!!