Life will get better main course. For you and your D.She moved in with him 2 months ago, and we're one week away from our court date, and the two of them went to visit his dying mother for 6 days. For some reason this is really hard for me to take.
Maybe because I feel that the reason he's taking her there is to possibly to tell her that they will be marrying after the divorces are final? I know I'm not completely over her yet, so that prospect does bother me. Makes me think back to vacations we took as a family and now she's gone away with him. Also, the fact that she can leave her daughter for 6 consecutive days angers me (she's never not seen my daughter for anywhere near that long). My daughter hasn't taken it well.
I guess I just shouldn't care. One of those things that are out of my control. It's just one selfish act after another.
You are going through a life changing event and entering a new phase in your life. I know that you must be feeling very emotional and stressed! Those feelings are normal, considering what you are going through."Did she leave you or did you her?
Did she started her seeing the OM previously or after the separation?
Does she know you still have feelings for her?"
She left me, actually I convinced her to leave (thank goodness). The two of them worked together for 9 months prior to Dday in May and said she was "in love" with him since March. Since I've done the 180, I don't think she knows whether I have feelings for her or not and I have no intention of telling her.
Sounds like my husband and I! :lol: My only complaint is that she still calls to tell him she wants him back.My heighbor is a great guy. A "Nice guy" type. His wife met a younger guy at class and had an A. He was devastaed. But he kicked her out and started working on himself.
He ended up meeting a great woman quickly and they got married within a year of his D. She has moved in. His x looks like sh!t. You can tell she is alone and realizes she let a great guy get away. She will never find one as good as him. And he is doing so well. His new wife is sooo much better looking and cool. He doesn't know about my situation, but he is kinda my hero. Sometimes, we do get what we deserve.
they really do affair downSounds like my husband and I! :lol: My only complaint is that she still calls to tell him she wants him back.