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About a week ago I went out with a friend of mine and I ended up drinking way too much. I lost my keys and he gave me a ride home. I ended up passing out with out much confrontation other than I wanted to go find my keys.
Needless to say I slept on the couch and woke up the next morning and she tells me that we are done. Later on that say she tells me that she is not sure what she wants to do so she is going to table everything until after the holidays (January).
We have two daughters 4 and 1. They are my world. I was thinking about leaving myself because we have not been happy for a while. The ironic thing is that the second she said we were done I new that she was the only woman for me and that I love her with all my heart.
In the past few days she has been telling me that I am smothering her and that if I do not give her space to think things are not going to go the way I want. I am trying to give her space but it is killing me because I want to start working toward being a better husband and father.
We are still living together and sleeping in the same bed. I know I need to back off but y question is this:
Given the cliff notes version of my situation is there any hope for us at all or do I start putting my affairs in order?
 

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I have done this about 8 times in the eight years we have been together. I usually only have a beer or two at home but I had way too much that night. I quit drinking but it was too late and I was stupid drunk. I did not intend to drink like that and I did not want to do it because I was pressured by anyone to drink.

I have offered to go to AA and will probably do so anyway but I am willing to do anything to keep my family together.

I do not believe and she has given me no reason to not trust her so I will continue to be a fool until she proves otherwise.
 
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