Okay but let’s appky some real world common sense. Do you think it likely an actual PhD psychologist is making any sort of diagnosis based on complaints from the wife? Hell No! More likely the phsychologist said something like, “autism spectrum is pretty wide” or “logical people can easily fit into the spectrum...”in this case, the psychologist is a friend of his wifes dad. a friend of the family who lives close, who also happens to be a psychologist. THAT is the one that bothers him, not her normal psychologist that she sees...
that his wife is **** talking her husband to this family friend, who now seems to want to diagnose him with autism without ever having a session.
i would find it to be very disrespectful. sounds like some pretty low handed scheming.
unless im not following his posts correctly...
I think OP feeling violated that his wife confided in someone he knows without his permission. I think OP is negating the professional nature of people in the psychology field who do not involve themselves in judgmental gossip, at all, and I know this personally.