My wife has been unhappy for some time now and not active. It has been for most of our marriage. 7 years now. First it started with not working much and being home all the time. Not eating right and not working out also. Really not much interest in anything besides getting her nails done, shopping and watching TV. Now that we have a child. She is a great Mom. Cleans the house, does everything you would want for your child. I would like my wife to eat better and to exercise for all of the common reasons. I offer her free time every night where I take over all household duties. Instead she get fast food and lays in bed. I know her diet is effecting her ability to be happy and to show me some affection. If I bring it up she gets extremely upset and there is no room for communication. It is a direct attack as she views it. Also I am not really attracted to her anymore. I love her very much and it sounds shallow but I want the best for my wife and her to be happy. I know for a fact that her diet and lifestyle is making things worse for her and me. I can see how hard it is for her to stay sain throughout a whole day with our son. She does not have the strength both emotionally and physically to handle it for just 1 day now. Everyday she is upset and blames me for everything even when I have been at work all day and not around.