Was this marriage arranged?
wife not attractive and smart
We have been married for 1yr 6 months. But i am nt finding my wife attractive. She is thin , and her breast size are of smaller.age 27.. he height 5.3 & weight 44..
She is housewife,educated .But not any smart enough.Even i try to make her ,she seems least cared about her smartness .
She is nt trying to make any progress in life..
Also she is nt getting socialized with outer friends and relatives.
Though i am a person of high level of energy, she is killing the instinct.
The moment i see her among others i feel bad.
I was expecting,she could have been better, but nt happening because of her poor atttude..and stubbern...
Can she improve .. it irritates me,
I am thinking of going away from her.
Please advice.
She is housewife,educated .But not any smart enough.Even i try to make her ,she seems least cared about her smartness .
She is nt trying to make any progress in life..
Also she is nt getting socialized with outer friends and relatives.
Though i am a person of high level of energy, she is killing the instinct.
The moment i see her among others i feel bad.
I was expecting,she could have been better, but nt happening because of her poor atttude..and stubbern...
Can she improve .. it irritates me,
I am thinking of going away from her.
Please advice.
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Are you attractive and smart?
I am assuming English is not your first language, is that correct?
I am assuming English is not your first language, is that correct?
Why marrying someone who you don't attracted to? My wife was stubborn too, but I love her the way she is. I'm very attracted to her, even when she thinks she is not attractive (after childbirth mostly).
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I think you are being overly critical of your wife.
Maybe she's shy and introverted.
Maybe your personality is overshadowing her, but 1 year and 6 months is a short time.
Maybe you need to give her some more positive reinforcement and she will be able to fit in.
Have some patience.
Maybe she's shy and introverted.
Maybe your personality is overshadowing her, but 1 year and 6 months is a short time.
Maybe you need to give her some more positive reinforcement and she will be able to fit in.
Have some patience.
And you've arrived at this conclusion because of what? Just remember YOU are the one who decided to marry her.
You married a woman you're not attracted to physically or mentally. I don't know if you need to worry much about your Nobel Prize acceptance speech either.
My advice... Get out if that's what you think you need to do. Do it now, before you start getting tied together with kids and stuff. It's only going to get worse. Then spend a lot if time growing up and figuring out who you're looking for before getting married again.
C
My advice... Get out if that's what you think you need to do. Do it now, before you start getting tied together with kids and stuff. It's only going to get worse. Then spend a lot if time growing up and figuring out who you're looking for before getting married again.
C
Can't fix stupid, but if she's not absolutely deformed you can get her a makeover.
5' 3" and 97lbs with small breasts. Did she lose height, lose weight, or did her boobs shrink after the wedding?
She's not bright (smart) according to you, and she is choosing not to fit in well with your friends and family.
I would love to hear her side of this story.
If you're so much smarter than her, why did you get married to a woman you're not attracted to? Were you listening to your parents?...Attractive quality in a married man.
At least you're surrounded by your friends and family.
Is your wife alone, isolated, without the support of her friends and family?
Whether you're happy with her or not, you should be on her side, protecting her.
Try to work this out. If not, let her go home to her family by divorcing her. It might be the right thing to do.
Don't have kids with her.
Female, 27, thin with small breasts, 5'3", 97lbs:
Interested males can form a line here.
She's not bright (smart) according to you, and she is choosing not to fit in well with your friends and family.
I would love to hear her side of this story.
If you're so much smarter than her, why did you get married to a woman you're not attracted to? Were you listening to your parents?...Attractive quality in a married man.
At least you're surrounded by your friends and family.
Is your wife alone, isolated, without the support of her friends and family?
Whether you're happy with her or not, you should be on her side, protecting her.
Try to work this out. If not, let her go home to her family by divorcing her. It might be the right thing to do.
Don't have kids with her.
Female, 27, thin with small breasts, 5'3", 97lbs:
Interested males can form a line here.
What do you mean by "educated housewife?"We have been married for 1yr 6 months. But i am nt finding my wife attractive. She is thin , and her breast size are of smaller.age 27.. he height 5.3 & weight 44..
She is housewife,educated .But not any smart enough.Even i try to make her ,she seems least cared about her smartness .
She is nt trying to make any progress in life..
Also she is nt getting socialized with outer friends and relatives.
Though i am a person of high level of energy, she is killing the instinct.
The moment i see her among others i feel bad.
I was expecting,she could have been better, but nt happening because of her poor atttude..and stubbern...
Can she improve .. it irritates me,
I am thinking of going away from her.
Please advice.
Does she have a job? Do you have children?
Maybe she has a "poor atttude" because of you?
I think it was an arranged marriage. She obviously isn't happy with him, so she is pretending to be ugly and stupid.
Once he leaves her she will start practicing medicine and take the duct tape off her chest.
Once he leaves her she will start practicing medicine and take the duct tape off her chest.
Yes, it was arranged marriage.
no child now & she is housewife now.
Bingo!Yes, it was arranged marriage.
Are you living in the country where this is still acceptable or are you an expat living in a Western country?
I am not sure if you just didn't want to take the time to write a post that has more detail.
Would agree that you may be being too pity and or she may be not trying. From the shortness of your post you sound rather insensitive and pompus. If you want a better response you should craft your post that elicits the community to be sympathetic or at the very least more informed.
So your wife is skinny with small boobs. Many men would prefer this. Bigger breasted, fuller figure lady's bodies tend to age less gracefully than their skinner counterparts. Naturally there are women that possess gravity defying boobs and breasts but for the overwhelming rest of them... Or perhaps this is the plusses you are listing.
Your approach asside i could not handle being married to a mental midget not sure the extent of her alleged handicap. Keep in mind that your next wife will have flaws that could be dealbreakers for you again. Or your next upgraded model may not be willing to accept your imperfections. Here in the US. we say the grass is always greener on the other side..
Good luck!
Would agree that you may be being too pity and or she may be not trying. From the shortness of your post you sound rather insensitive and pompus. If you want a better response you should craft your post that elicits the community to be sympathetic or at the very least more informed.
So your wife is skinny with small boobs. Many men would prefer this. Bigger breasted, fuller figure lady's bodies tend to age less gracefully than their skinner counterparts. Naturally there are women that possess gravity defying boobs and breasts but for the overwhelming rest of them... Or perhaps this is the plusses you are listing.
Your approach asside i could not handle being married to a mental midget not sure the extent of her alleged handicap. Keep in mind that your next wife will have flaws that could be dealbreakers for you again. Or your next upgraded model may not be willing to accept your imperfections. Here in the US. we say the grass is always greener on the other side..
Good luck!
I feel sorry for you and for her in light of the knowledge of this being an arranged marriage.
It's hard enough to make a marriage work and last when you choose the person yourself,i can't imagine how difficult it must be to be told who you are expected to spend the rest of your life with by other people.
It's hard enough to make a marriage work and last when you choose the person yourself,i can't imagine how difficult it must be to be told who you are expected to spend the rest of your life with by other people.
:lol:I think it was an arranged marriage. She obviously isn't happy with him, so she is pretending to be ugly and stupid.
Once he leaves her she will start practicing medicine and take the duct tape off her chest.
Divorce this woman so she can find a man who appreciates her and thinks she is smart enough, sexy enough, and doesn't complain and throw eggs at her instead of loving her the way a husband should.
Sheesh!
Sheesh!
My DW was 156cm and 44kg, with 32B when I met her. It is a handfull for me, she is very sexy and I love her breast very much (couldn't get enough of them even till now). She did grows to 48kg and 34D now after 2 childbirth, she hated that gravity seems to pull them down now. But they are very lovely to me.
There must be other things that make you not liked her, beside her appearance and attitude.
There must be other things that make you not liked her, beside her appearance and attitude.
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