Give her nothing. Bag all of her stuff up in trash bags and put it in the yard. Do the 180.
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1) Well, she rather be with him, that for sure. She's checked out of the marriage and thats all you need to know.Me 30, wife 27, OM 53!!
no kids
My wife of 4.5 years has been, to my complete shock, having an affair for between 2 to 4 months. I confronted her 6 days ago after detecting something was a miss in the last few weeks. She admitted and then left and stayed with OM.
We have met twice and I have explained how important her and the marriage are to me and that I am totally willing to work on the marriage if only she is willing.
She stayed with friends for two days and said she "thought" about it, my inclination is that she knew the answer but thought she was somehow sparing my feeling![]()
Now she is moved out and living with him and just tonight emailed me saying she forgot her apron and scentsy oil burners.(like 30 bucks worth of stuff )and wanted me to get them together for her and leave them on the door step.
Three questions:
1.What does it mean that she moved straight in with him?
2. Is moving in straight away abnormal
3.Is she trying to tear my heart apart asking for a domestic item like an apron or am I reading into it?
Any advice or thoughts welcome
Thank you
Agree. Use a scorched earth policy and tell everyone you know about your wife's cheating ways as well as the old guy she's sleeping with. If she thinks it is so right, then she shouldn't mind everyone knowing about it.Who is this guy ? How did she meet him?
Expose her to family and friends...Expose the OM at his work place and his family
Yes expose far and wideWho is this guy ? How did she meet him?
Expose her to family and friends...Expose the OM at his work place and his family
Do all of this. Be glad you didn't have children with her. Don't take her back. She's not a keeper.Not only that Mwarrenk
But bag up everything of hers and drop it off at the POSOM's place.
Lock up all bank accounts.
Cut off any shared credit cards.
Lock her out of yourhome.
Cancel her cellphone if it is on your account.
Cut her off!
That should let her know how you feel about her decision.
Then go see an attorney so you understand your rights.
The get tested for STD's.
And let her parents know the POSOM is close to their age.
Oh how that will go over with Mom & Dad!!!
Have a great life. Just get rid of the boat anchor first.
:iagree:Post the OM on cheaterville.com
End all joint credit cards
Exposé wide and far to freinds and family, both her and his
Cut off access to joint money, stop deposit your pay to joint accounts, stop contributing to your 401k so she can't get half of it.
Hire a shark lawyer to go nuclear on her
If the work together expose her and him at work,