Me 30, wife 27, OM 53!!
no kids
My wife of 4.5 years has been, to my complete shock, having an affair for between 2 to 4 months. I confronted her 6 days ago after detecting something was a miss in the last few weeks. She admitted and then left and stayed with OM.
We have met twice and I have explained how important her and the marriage are to me and that I am totally willing to work on the marriage if only she is willing.
She stayed with friends for two days and said she "thought" about it, my inclination is that she knew the answer but thought she was somehow sparing my feeling
Now she is moved out and living with him and just tonight emailed me saying she forgot her apron and scentsy oil burners.(like 30 bucks worth of stuff )and wanted me to get them together for her and leave them on the door step.
Three questions:
1.What does it mean that she moved straight in with him?
2. Is moving in straight away abnormal
3.Is she trying to tear my heart apart asking for a domestic item like an apron or am I reading into it?
Any advice or thoughts welcome
Thank you
no kids
My wife of 4.5 years has been, to my complete shock, having an affair for between 2 to 4 months. I confronted her 6 days ago after detecting something was a miss in the last few weeks. She admitted and then left and stayed with OM.
We have met twice and I have explained how important her and the marriage are to me and that I am totally willing to work on the marriage if only she is willing.
She stayed with friends for two days and said she "thought" about it, my inclination is that she knew the answer but thought she was somehow sparing my feeling
Now she is moved out and living with him and just tonight emailed me saying she forgot her apron and scentsy oil burners.(like 30 bucks worth of stuff )and wanted me to get them together for her and leave them on the door step.
Three questions:
1.What does it mean that she moved straight in with him?
2. Is moving in straight away abnormal
3.Is she trying to tear my heart apart asking for a domestic item like an apron or am I reading into it?
Any advice or thoughts welcome
Thank you