Get official info on him. See your attorney on what and how you need to get it. Background checks. Aren’t that expensive I doubt.
He has convictions for felonies. Burglary, grand larceny, criminal mischief.If there’s no paper on him it’s meaningless
I assume that means old man?I don’t see a judge granting her custody with the kids without supervision if what you say about OM is true. Certainly she won’t be allowed to move away. Your attorney knows of OMs doings and hasn’t said this?
gotchaOM - other man
Yeah I cant now, I thought before it was just poor choices other part which it was but this just doesn't make sense. I think there is something wrong with her. I will be reaching out to my lawyer tomorrow, the kids lawyer and that social worker I was seeing just to get his advice as he doesn't make any money off me and he was pretty up front on things I'm curious what he will say.. Could use someone to talk with right now anyway.No do not let it go. I’ve been saying for a long time that you need to get sole custody. She isn’t good for your kids and it’s your responsibility to keep them safe and well. Step up and get it done.
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I'm gonna talk with him and ask considering all the info should I just cut the civil s*** and take her to court, in the end I have a bit of money left to fight her and she has nothing anyway. She claims he will never be around them again but it still speaks volumes about her character and how bad her choices are which i think is helpful in determining if she should continue to have 50% custody. Plus the medical issues.Def talk with the social worker about this OMs past. I'm sure they would be VERY interested in that, and will probably talk with the kids. Your lawyer should be able to discuss any sort of way to keep him away from your kids (at least until after the divorce is completed).
I took a nice drive today to NJ well.. Not a fan of driving there but you get the point. Helped cleared up my thoughts a bit and I'm no longer second guessing myself on whether I should do this or not. Im going to do it.Apologies for soap boxing on your thread but I really freaking hate the way TAM updates threads.
I wrote above statement thinking the last 7-8 threads were not there. When I posted the one above,
THEN the others appeared. Upgrades TAM...... yeah.... whatever you say LOL
Most definitely share this with attorney, DCS, DHS, and DAS. DAS because she is a threat to her
own well being. If that can be proven, then getting FC would be a breeze. Get FC first.
Then worry about moving. Given her choices of men after you, there may be a great
chance the baby daddy would sign away right willingly. But that is HER problem to solve.
It's been on the back of my mind since things started picking up with the divorce but I wanted to keep it civil for the kids sake. Now I think for them it's the only choice.From everything I've read here your wife in no way should be raising kids.
Walked out on husband and kids
Got pregnant from a 3rd man, 20+ older than her just 6 months after walking out
6 months after new baby she's banging a professional criminal.
I wonder how long till she is pregnant with his kid? You should do everything in your power to get full custody of those kids.
Is her "friend" going to NC with her? Or is it just her and the kids?It's been on the back of my mind since things started picking up with the divorce but I wanted to keep it civil for the kids sake. Now I think for them it's the only choice.
Currently dead tired but can't sleep. Gonna be calling my lawyer tomorrow trying to figure out what to say, how to word this.
I hope for everyone's sake I can get this done quickly. Also have the creditors banging at the door, I'd like to get rid of them sooner rather then later.
I do get a bit peeved when she complains about her life to me and how broke she is, how horrible everyone is to her how everyone wants her to listen to her bs but no one will listen to hers etc etc etc... yet still living in an expensive apartment driving around in a 40k suv that I bought new, going shopping every other day just came back from lake George now going to NC tomorrow. That makes me nervous on top of it I don't think she should be driving for that long but I don't think I can stop it.
Not to mention the new "friend" bringing her "just coffee".. story doesn't add up.
Don't mind my ramblings im tired guess ill try see if I can sleep now.
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