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I'm a pretty calm person by my wife is always yelling at me. We have 2 daughters who are 29 months and 9 months old. My daughters and I have a great relationship but my wife hurts my relationship with them. My oldest and I will be having fun/playing and my wife will come into the room and start yelling about how I'm not doing this or that. So we start to yell and my daughter tells us to stop yelling.
I honestly feel the problem is my father in law can't function on his own and my mother in law/wife have to tell him what to do all the time. He can function physically but mentally he has to be told what to do almost every minute of the day. I'm afraid my wife sees me that way and has to tell me what to do every second of every day.
Example: I'm playing with my daughters and notice my youngest is close to the stairs or something that could hurt her, I'm well aware of whats going on but my wife will come into the room and start yelling at me about not being aware of what they are doing. I can't do anything with my daughters without her interfering and telling me that I'm not watching them to make sure they don't get hurt.
I'm at a loss of what to do. My oldest daughter has been hitting me and I think it's because she sees how my wife treats me.
I honestly feel the problem is my father in law can't function on his own and my mother in law/wife have to tell him what to do all the time. He can function physically but mentally he has to be told what to do almost every minute of the day. I'm afraid my wife sees me that way and has to tell me what to do every second of every day.
Example: I'm playing with my daughters and notice my youngest is close to the stairs or something that could hurt her, I'm well aware of whats going on but my wife will come into the room and start yelling at me about not being aware of what they are doing. I can't do anything with my daughters without her interfering and telling me that I'm not watching them to make sure they don't get hurt.
I'm at a loss of what to do. My oldest daughter has been hitting me and I think it's because she sees how my wife treats me.