I have been married for 9 years. We have 2 children (1 between us and her son) 5 and 13. My wife has changed in the 14 months. She lost weight and with that came new clothes. I was happy that she started taking better care of herself. But as she lost weight she started going out more with GF's I called her on it and she cut back for a few weeks but it started up again. With her new look she is getting the "why is she with him" comments.
I started losing some weight as well but it is slower going for me. She doesn't want to go out with me anymore. It's almost like she is ashamed of me.
I asked her why she feels like that and I quote "You were ok when I was fat but I need a more manly man" That was two monthes ago. It broke me. I have started to drink, I started missing work.
I have checked phone records and texts. I didn't find any increase usage . I think she is cheating or is looking for an "upgrade". What can I do? I love her so much. I may sound desperate and I guess I am. I never thought I would marry anyone and then I met her.
Any advice is welcome (and I know that I am a beta male)
I started losing some weight as well but it is slower going for me. She doesn't want to go out with me anymore. It's almost like she is ashamed of me.
I have checked phone records and texts. I didn't find any increase usage . I think she is cheating or is looking for an "upgrade". What can I do? I love her so much. I may sound desperate and I guess I am. I never thought I would marry anyone and then I met her.
Any advice is welcome (and I know that I am a beta male)