Buy her some flowers. Don't ask her what she wants. I hate when my husband does that to me. I'm exhausted 200% of the time and for once, I just wish that he would make the decision on his own. He knows what I like to do. Rub her feet. Run her a bath. Cook her dinner. Don't let her wash the dishes and don't say a word about it. Maybe you have already tried all of these things. Maybe not. I just know that this is what MY heart desires at times. I hate when my husband asks me. But out of respect. I tell him instead of saying I wish that you would just come up with a plan and do it instead of asking me because then I feel like I'm making him do something that he doesn't care to do?