My wife started giving me the cold shoulder about six years ago. The only reason we are together now is to make my loving daughter's life somewhat normal for her. I also thought that convincing my wife to stay with me, would allow us to work on the marriage, but that has not happened. She refuses to work on anything. I just ask her today to attend the “Love Worth Fitting For” seminar with Kurt Cameron. She refused to go. I am a good man - don't drink, cheat, no verbal or physical abuse, and I have a good solid job. She said I slammed the door on her and quit being physical with her. She refuses counseling and the situation sucks big time. I don't like the uncertainty of my future and finances – possibly losing a house that I worked so hard for and worked to improve. I helped her through schooling and I have been the primary financial support. She cannot live on her own. Right now she is like a house mate that lives in another bedroom. I miss having a loving wife and sharing quality time together. I want someone to share my life with and love me. She said she is leaving me 4-yrs from now when our daughter graduates from HS. I get to see my loving daughter walk across the stage and get her diploma and the same day watch my wife walk away. I am not ready for that. All in all it will be ten years with a wife as a house mate that lives in another room. I cannot tune out the hurt and depression like my with can. She is living life out as nothing is happening but I am anxious and depressed. My councilor told me to focus on myself but that is difficult with constant reminders around me including my wife.