Hello, inhave recently found out that my wife is having an affair. We have been together for 6 years and married for 4. We have 2 kids 9 and 4. I am fairly certain that we will not be able to work it out. She shows very little remorse and is still actively seeing someone. My world is upside down right now. This blind sided me out of left field. We had appointments to see a fertility doctor and plans for the future and now this. She finally took her wedding ring off after a week of seeing this guy. When should I take my ring off?? I know people are saying when I am ready but what if I am never ready. Do i just take it off and try to move on?