Eh... maybe not. You've been married for under a decade, you have no kids, and she works.OM's kids are 8, 6 and 3. What a dirtbag. He's going to be broke for a long time paying child support and alimony. I hate that I am going to be funding their life with money I earned and not my wife but whatever.
Oh, and you have proof of infidelity... right?!?