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Wife hitting husband

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My wife hits me with her fist all the time.
Especially when I lift her off he floor or when we're fooling around in bed.

She can *assault* me anytime she wishes.
That's her prerogative!
 
It's wonderful that your marriage is cookies and cream, Caribbean Man...

But I think the original poster intended on his post being taken seriously. Perhaps you are too caught up in la la land to realize that physical abuse in a relationship (from a male or female) is VERY real and can be a VERY big problem... I don't think the original poster is going to benefit from your Grade 9 humour.
I think you should read AFEH's post.
My wife is also passive aggressive.
It is a form of "constructive aggression."
Maybe you could try it?
 
I think the time that cops may not take female-to-male aggression seriously is when dealing with reports made after the incident.

From what I saw when I worked at a domestic violence agency, if there was any indication at all that a domestic dispute was mutual, their preference by far was to either take in the person without marks or if they couldn't determine a primary aggressor at the scene, they'd haul them both in and let the courts figure it out.

Not a great solution, and granted this was years ago, but that was something we saw pretty frequently.
^^^^^^^^
Same problem we have in our country, and the courts are heavily baised against men in these type of cases.
 
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