Hi, I am posting here just to see if I am over reacting to my wife's suggestions that we engage in an open relationship. Btw a few years ago I found her having a facebook affair and planning to meet a guy for sex. We worked through that and all appeared to be fine. So 4 years on, when everything is calm and fine she blurts out that she isn't opposed to an open relationship. I was surprised. Now for me this is a big deal. I fought once for my marriage, left my pride aside and put the kids first. But now this? She says after seeing my reaction that while isn't opposed to an open relationship she would never act on this or hurt me. I am against this 100% and this is deal breaker for me. After fighting for my marriage, I now find myself contemplating divorce. I simple don't want the drama of a open relationship and have no fight left. She said she was just being honest and I have nothing to worry about. But I feel like she is planning something or has designs on someone else. She also got drunk recently and said that having sex behind someone's back is not cheating if it is meaningless. I put this down to drink talk and she said she talks crap when drunk afterwards. She doesn't get drunk often. Once at year at most. So am I over reacting? I don't want to be married to someone who wants an open relationship. I fought already for my marriage and played my part in keeping the family together. We are just back from a holiday of a lifetime. It was great and she said it was her best holiday ever. So what is going on?? Am I paranoid because of her past??? Or am I correct??