Backstory: we have been married for a year and a half and were dating for two years before that. We were 29 when we started dating. After getting engaged we started having sex less and less and she started gaining more weight. It has gotten to the point where we have been intimate one in the past 6 months. She blames her weight gain and says she hates the way she looks and doesn't want to have sex because of it. I confronted her yesterday (after first going to see a divorce lawyer) and said this has to change and now she is telling me that for the 6 years between ages 23-28 she was bulimic and vomited 2-3 times a day(that is about 2000 days). So now, on top of everything I realize the reason behind her stomach issues that she has had for the past year or so(I am now convinced that she had them before we started living together too, but hid them from me). I am sure that she could not support a child and I know I want one. Am I wrong in thinking that she should have disclosed this to me befoer getting married? I wanted to get a divorce anyway but was willing to see if she would change and get thin and feel better and want to have sex and children. now I have no hope of that. I do not feel affection from her(she hardly wants to kiss me). But am I being a guy now who is leaving his wife because she can;t ahve children(even though their are otehr causes of unhappiness too). Thank you to all who weigh in on this.