I would never do that. Personally, I hate being the center of attention and think it's trashy when anyone goes around flashing people in public. Gross. No guy I'd ever be with would ever ask me to do that cause they know they would get smacked for even suggesting I do this in public.

 

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I am long past the point of being proud enough of my 'assets' to want to show them off in public like that. I would only do it if I was protesting a law that women have to cover their breasts and men don't or something. It wouldn't be to titillate anyone and wouldn't be a 'flash' per se.

 

Yeah it's trashy, but seriously - lighten up, ladies. Smack your SO over suggesting it?

 

A friend was in town just this past weekend and we took a pic of us grabbing a handful of the other's boobs. Why? It's like a joke with our llittle group of friends. We put it up in our private FB group and everyone got a laugh. My hubby took the pic.

Would I do that on a regular basis? HELL NO. And my husband wouldn't ask me to. Flashing just isn't my thing.

I've been to mardi gras. Didn't flash one single time... still collected plenty of beads though!

 

Dare I ask how you did earn those beads?? Lol
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I was going to use the word trashy in my post too It's such a comment on our attitudes about women's breasts that simply showing them to other people is considered trashy.

 

Eh, I hear where you are going with that but I would consider it equally as trashy if some guy were going around flashing his d!ck and balls in public. Gross. Get some class. I personally would not want to be around or be with anyone like that in a romantic sense.

Also, I think it's funny that this thread was started by "jealoushubby." The irony of your screenname handle is hilarious, OP.

 

I can't imagine my wife doing this in a million years. She's only recently been secure enough in her body to be nude around ME, let alone showing off to others. That said, would I mind? No, as long as she only ever did it with me by my side it wouldn't bother me at all. Would it turn me on? Depends on the circumstances but I could see it turning me on in the right context. If she made it clear to me that she was doing it to turn me on, and again, was right by my side.

An example of doing it for some purpose "other" than to turn me on? Sitting on my shoulders at an outdoor concert taking her top off. See, that's being done for the benefit of the band, not me. I would not like that AT ALL.

An example of doing it for me? She's sitting on my lap at a poker game and offers her top in the pot because I'm short on cash and have a good hand. And once I'm broke she immediately suggests that we retire to a more secluded location.

 

Seems there is a different take on flashing at something like a concert or mardi gras and doing something like flashing during a poker game or on a dare from friends. Does one have more of a chance of being a turn on?
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Hell no now maybe flashing me at a party with no one looking. That sounds kinda fun.

 

Don't look, Momma's got her boobs out!

 

One time my wife and I were hanging out drinking with another couple we are great friends with. The topic of sex and boobs naturally came up and with some egging on from us guys they both flashed us for a few seconds. It was super hot bc it was with trusted friends and it was totally unexpected
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One time my wife and I were hanging out drinking with another couple we are great friends with. The topic of sex and boobs naturally came up and with some egging on from us guys they both flashed us for a few seconds. It was super hot bc it was with trusted friends and it was totally unexpected
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That's what you call a contradiction.

 

No I wouldn't flash and I don't think my boyfriend would like that. He has mentioned however that he'd like to find a beach where I could tan topless. I'm fine with that.
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That's one I hadn't thought of, I would totally be cool on a topless beach with my wife. Anyone ever do that? Would you do that??
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I have seen this twice at two different parties where a friend does this in a drunk state. The memory (mammory) of them doing it made me think less of them.

I can't imagine my wife doing it and would hope they are for my eyes only.

She kind of flashed me in the kitchen this morning, not sure if it was intentional, but wow talk about leaving me with a smile on my face.

 

If I had a hot wife and something like this happened in the right type of situation after a couple of drinks, I would be fine with it. My current wife, no, keep that area covered and try and look your best please.

 

My wife flashing other folks would not be a turn on to me. I would feel major disrepected.

Whether they mean to or not I see this as sending a message about their boundaries and what they are willing to share.

So wet t-shirt contests included.

My wife has a nice set. I do like her to dress sexy when I am with her, but that is not like flashing.

Of course flashing is not limited to boobs.

 

My wife has done that. It doesn't bother me. She's always done this sort of thing.

Its not without risk such as how others percieve you. So, she's a big girl and I respect her enough that she's willing to live with her own choices.

From my standpoint though: She's got a nice rack. I don't mind if the other guys are a bit jealous...

 

In my younger years (17-20), I used to flash people. I got a charge out of seeing people's reactions. I've since think I calmed down in my age (31) and think this line of thinking results in loose boundaries. I'm no longer the wild, impressionable young girl.

Now, the only one who gets to see them is my husband. He's quite happy with that.

 

Looks like that's exactly what happened to my wife =/

It just annoys me that I wasn't around during her younger years, damn the fun that I missed

 

no i would not want my wife doing that. I had girlfriend years ago and when were drunk really drunk i pressured her to make out with her friend. She did i loved that girl, but the next day she was mad at me for pressuring her and i did feel guilty and a little bad for being that kind of guy. Luckily i never asked girls to do anything like that again

My wife admits one of her past boyfriends egged her on to flash her breast while drunk and she told me she did. I suppose when you are young and into someone you are dating you want so badly to please that person and to be accepted.


I have grown up though while i was never wild when i was younger i probably while in college would of entertained the idea of a girlfriend flashing herself. But now i am older and a lot smarter and i would not want my wife doing such a thing i have grown to love in ways my young self could never and i respect her too much to want her to do that.

We are grown adults after all

 

I want a lady on the streets but a freak in the bed

 

Yeah

 

My wife will do this to me occasionally where no one else sees it but me. She will also do it around the house when the kids are turned the other way.

 

Well in the Caribbean we have many Carnivals.
They are much more risque than Brazil....
Plenty of that [ flashing ] down here...
I have been to large fetes where women actually take off their underwear and wave them like mini flags. Some of the most
" proper " women turn into freaks when the alcohol and music gets into their head.
I have been to large parties with friends , when ladies in our group, and my gf at the time did it, It was just fun.
Blame in on the music.........

 

I personally think it says alot about the (lack of) boundaries of the woman. Even more so about how the husband objectifies his wife if asking for this (which is what I am gathering from your posts).

No Thanks

 

Lmao if I ever did that... no doubt my SO would whip out his pistol an shoot the eyes outta any man around! So no.... I wouldn't do it.
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No 'alpha' husband would want his wife to flash anyone.

And no 'alpha' woman would do it.

 

alpha husband? alpha woman?

 

Nope.

And in all seriousness, there are some men who should always wear a shirt. When your moobs can fill a D cup, dude, seriously, cover those puppies up.

 

Women's breasts are beautiful and nothing to be ashamed of. My wife will shed her top at a topless beach. And we will both shed our clothes at our local naturist park. The human body is not dirty or shameful.

Though some are put together better than others.

 

So I think you just stated your boundaries on this for your marriage.

Topless at a topless or nude beach. But in a safer zone like a naturist park you go nude.

Ok cool. Serious question here. No agenda. Honest.

Will there be any optional clothing situations at your home? Like with friends? Inside or outside?