[RandomDude]

And admittedly... vice versa from time to time

We're back on talking terms after the little quarrel about work and sh-t... however now I'm worried about this little dynamic of ours. Normally during a random fight that isn't in regards to a sensitive issue; we poke at each other until one of us snaps and we end up fking like crazy.

Furthermore, during the after-sex talk when we're both jelly we end up solving our problems (no problems with stubbornness after sex)... but isn't this toxic?

Also - I wasn't interested in sex a few days ago however, which just makes things worse because without sex to fix everything, her poking just p-ssed me off and that's it. Some issues just can't be solved with sex. Hell what to do?

I thought we would have minor issues to deal with now but it seems there's always crap to work on in marriage...

 

[WorkingOnMe]

Dude, your wife gets turned on when the wind blows.

 

[RandomDude]

Sure, but isn't it toxic what we're doing?

 

[working_together]

Dude, your wife gets turned on when the wind blows.

You stole my line....was going to say the exact thing...lol

 

[WorkingOnMe]

Sure, but isn't it toxic what we're doing?

I don't think so. If it was toxic wouldn't it have been a problem years ago? But here you are still going strong. It's hard to stay mad for long when you're f&cking like rabbits. Anger is toxic. Sex is not.

 

[working_together]

Your whole life seems to revolve around sex, I think that in itself is toxic, the dynamic you have with her is toxic I think as well. She sounds immature as well.

Just saying....

 

[RandomDude]

She is improving... slowly but there is progress.

Thankfully we're now going to counselling to fix our sexual frequency issues, but it looks like it's going to take a lot of time to grow out of old habits, like this one... *sighs*

 

[costa200]

Ah! The fine weird link between aggression and sexual arousal... Confusing but enjoyable!