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And admittedly... vice versa from time to time
We're back on talking terms after the little quarrel about work and sh-t... however now I'm worried about this little dynamic of ours. Normally during a random fight that isn't in regards to a sensitive issue; we poke at each other until one of us snaps and we end up fking like crazy.
Furthermore, during the after-sex talk when we're both jelly we end up solving our problems (no problems with stubbornness after sex)... but isn't this toxic?
Also - I wasn't interested in sex a few days ago however, which just makes things worse because without sex to fix everything, her poking just p-ssed me off and that's it. Some issues just can't be solved with sex. Hell what to do?
I thought we would have minor issues to deal with now but it seems there's always crap to work on in marriage...
We're back on talking terms after the little quarrel about work and sh-t... however now I'm worried about this little dynamic of ours. Normally during a random fight that isn't in regards to a sensitive issue; we poke at each other until one of us snaps and we end up fking like crazy.
Furthermore, during the after-sex talk when we're both jelly we end up solving our problems (no problems with stubbornness after sex)... but isn't this toxic?
Also - I wasn't interested in sex a few days ago however, which just makes things worse because without sex to fix everything, her poking just p-ssed me off and that's it. Some issues just can't be solved with sex. Hell what to do?
I thought we would have minor issues to deal with now but it seems there's always crap to work on in marriage...