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I'm going to give you one piece of unsolicited advice: Don't open your 1st thread on an international internet message board by saying "hello family". We are strangers. We have no connection to you or each other besides this board. We are not, nor will we ever be "family" . Odd are we will never meet. Applying the word family to postings is a misuse of the word which diminishes it's value / definition but all sets you up for serious disappointment & heartache because your expectations are out of whack.